10 questions that men and women care about most first night

10 questions that men and women care about most first night
Are first, bleeding and pain virgins? What newly-married first life is touched at first is " The hymen " Question. Hymen act than getting other organ even more important role in idea in society and morals always. This is because its integrality has been considered to judge the reliable index of woman's chastity all the time, even only index. In fact according to medical practice, and pain come on, it judges to be the intersection of virgin and science in order to bleed. Because not each virgin bleeds in first sexual intercourse or pain, moreover the characteristic of the hymen varies with each individual, it is it thin to have, thick loose tight big light difference, there are getting more different too on shape,take exercises because some vigorously, by bike, if you can't fall, frustrate by traumatism, last period reason such as bolt, masturbation; Full of old hymens and already shrink back by oneself; Some are not very obvious when being born in: Some hymens are very strong, although still keep intact by numerous sexual intercourse. So, if rely on the hymen to conclude simply the wife is chaste and undefiled, is obviously extremely unfair. What if second, first is handed in and failed? Is a very common thing too that sexual intercourse fails at newly-married night. According to the analysis, the reason why first sexual intercourse fails is mainly as follows, the penis has been already weak (overstrain caused) before sexual intercourse Account for 10%; Ejaculate or contact women just already before the sexual intercourse vagina ejaculate (excessively excited irritable to lead to the fact) Account for 8%; Because the wife is painful to account for 35%; Do not know accounting for 15% of the sexual intercourse position; The reason is unidentified to account for 20%. On the other hand, first sexual intercourse fails and caresses the experience to have something to do with, unskilled person account for, fail 2/3 of number of people, oneself can clear reason accounts for 1/3 after first sexual intercourse fail, among them most losers can combine smoothly after trying handing in 2- 5 times, it needn't be irritable and uneasy or produce any worry either so has even failed, can retry after having a short interval, or the mood of both sides is stable after waiting for just a few days, fatigue when being newly-married is retried after being relieved. If the husband has failed, the wife has not " really used " , " too disappointing " Often can make, feel deeply ashamed uneasy man, until loud psychological setback get into a difficult position when criticize. At this moment if the wife can be reasonable and speaking some lover's prattle mutter in a deadpan way, giving the husband encouraging and comfort, the man will resume courage, the ones that tried to get sexual life are harmonious and happy. Third, does it influence becoming pregnant that the seminal fluid outflow after sexual intercourse? The seminal fluid flows from the vagina out after sexual intercourse, this is a general phenomenon. In fact, though each ejaculation can discharge seminal fluid of about 2- 5 ml, among them contain several hundred million sperms, finally can reach oviduct through cervix uteri, sub official jargon sperm fertilized to wait only a few, have 15- 50 only generally, less than 200 while being large. Among them, only getting ahead of others, an excellent sperm, is chosen by the ovum, and bind with it and get married, finish life's extending the great cause. Outside the palace door that and other most sperms are refused, discharge with its seminal fluid from vagina. Outflow in order to prevent the seminal fluid, improve the chance of becoming pregnant and can underlay the wife's buttock at the time of sexual intercourse, lie supine two hours more after sexual intercourse, in order to guarantee the seminal fluid floods the palace mouth, reduce its outflow. The surplus seminal fluid belongs to the natural phenomena outside discharging the body from vagina after sexual intercourse, have not generally influenced to becoming pregnant. Fourth, travel and practise contraception in honeymoon? Now, the travel of getting married has been already quite general, this have many advantages, newly-married couple do not forget to pay attention to practising contraception!, so as not to sow the inferior one at this moment" The seed " And regret all one's life. Because travel life is irregular, the mood is tense, spirit and physical power are tired, organism resistance is thereupon decline, these will influence precise, ovum quality. Say regional climate differ significantly during the journey, apt to suffer from cold cold, in addition crowd mix and pollution extensive and then, the sanitary condition of bathing and getting accommodation is bad, easy kindling and infecting disease. Especially the infection of nettle rash and virus, sex virus germ, resulting in miscarrying, premature delivery, stillborn fetus or foetus' deformity or continue, take place the infertile important inducement. Medical science and geneticists think, become pregnant and is suitable for easy happy living condition. From the eugenic viewpoint, if newly-married couple want earlier pregnancy, unsuitable to make, travel honeymoon. Married couple that travel honeymoon should take contraceptive is had better in travel, become pregnant expire. Fifth, how do newly-married couple practise contraception well? If newly-married couple do not think of bearing early, can practise contraception. You had better use the condom to add contraceptive jelly, not only can guarantee contraception result, but also can increase the lubrication of the vagina. The condom does not have any side effect, the most sanitary, use and do in the proper way, neither will influence pleasant sensation of sexual life, and can prevent some infectious diseases among couple, it is all safe and reliable to couple and child of the future. Without other uncomfortable, can have used this France to practise contraception all the time. After being married for 2- 3 months, when the wife's vagina is relatively relaxed, can also use the contraceptive diaphragm instead and add contraceptive jelly. Sixth, will contraception influence the sexual life? Plan to take the newly-married couple of contraceptive, in the question that they consider repeatedly, is the first probably the normal response that will influence the sexual life of practising contraception? In fact, a large number of scientific experiments prove, various contraceptive, such as condom, contraceptive diaphragm, oral contraceptive and intrauterine device for ladies for men,etc., not only have adverse effect on the human body, sex function, sexual life but also " offered the freedom and psychology for sexual life to liberate" . So-called what some people present " The sex is uncomfortable " ,Not because measure causes, but psychological illusion, result misunderstood even twisted that the long-term social influence forms. Seventh, what diseases are suffered from not be pregnant temporarily or all one's life? Each pair of newly-married couple looks forward to growing the bright child of a piece of callisthenics, Damien's purpose that want, the bride who suffers from following diseases should not be pregnant temporarily. For instance diseases such as heart disease, hepatitis, nephritis, pulmonary tuberculosis, diabetes, hyperthyroidism, asthma, epilepsy,etc., in addition, the wife suffers from benign tumour of position such as abdominal cavity, pelvis, mammary gland, thyroid gland, should perform the operation or treat when being pregnant, in case that disease aggravate pregnancy period, difficult to punish. One party or both sides are dull-witted or mental patient, should not be pregnant all one's life. In addition, serious heart disease, function fine heart have getting in heart failure at ordinary times, should also not be pregnant all one's life, in case that aggravate the condition after being pregnant, bring the life danger. So, the person who suffers from this kind of disease, should take the sterilization measure after marriage. Eighth, what diseases prevent to have sexual intercourse newly-marriedly? First, the urine way is infected. Such as urethritis, cystitis, pyelonephritis,etc.. The prevention method is that men and women should all often wash the other private parts, both sides should wash genitals and other private parts before each sexual intercourse, women had better urinate after the the same branch of a family once and wash the other private parts again, In order to reduce to infect the chance. Have sexual intercourse, faint disease. Because the bride is too nervous and fearing or excited, the heartbeat is accelerated, can present cerebral anemia and symptom in the the same branch of a family, have palpitation, be out of breath, look pale, happen cold sweat, the intersection of blood pressure and drop, the intersection of pulse and thin and delicate, the intersection of four limbs and clammy, the intersection of expression and aphasia in a trance,etc.. This kind of situation appears, should lower bride's head, drink a cup of syrup, can generally resume slowly, if mind is still unclear, should send the treatment to hospital. The method prevented is that a bride should be happy, should not be too tense, the emotions of both sides should be harmonious, the bridegroom should restrain oneself, movements should be gentle, must guard against rudely. Third, women's vagina is damaged. If the vagina tears, bleeds too many, vaginal domes to damage etc., all these are that bridegroom's movements are rude, it is too quickly to exert oneself. Especially husband lack the intersection of automatic control and ability after drinking but rude sexual intercourse, might take place these accident, some bleed and cause shock too much. If this thing happen, should stop the sexual activity, oppress the bleeding position for a moment by sterilizing the cotton ball, the serious one should send to hospital and deal with. Fourth, vaginal convulsion. Because a few brides do not understand to the sexual activity, produce the fear, present vaginal convulsion during sexual intercourse, make sexual intercourse difficult and go on smoothly, even cause the penis to inlay one, difficult to pull out. Method that prevent from whether bride want, cooperate, coordinate, don't be nervous, should hand in, regard happy a portion of life as couple. When there is vaginal convulsion, can take before sexual intercourse once in half an hour and solve convulsion, sedative, for instance atropine, Lu Mi that,etc.. If vaginal deformity or narrow, should pay hospital treatment. Fifth, the husband's penis is damaged. Some bridegrooms are irascible during sexual intercourse, lead to the fact the glans penis is damaged, the foreskin is that the tape ruptures and bleeds, pain vigorously, the lighter have a rest, can resume several days, should go for hospital treatment in time while being getting in weight. Ninth, how to distinguish reacting and pregnant response for a long time of oral contraceptive? Most woman take behind the contraceptive having side effecting, take medicine, can have a few people appearing pregnant response for a long time, if disgusting, vomit, the appetite is uncomfortable, dizzy, bleeds or period is reduced etc., these symptoms are similar to pregnant response for a long time. If one married woman take place four kind following symptom should it expects to be pregnant: First, amenorrhea, appear for a long time pregnant response, urinate number of times increase, bloated pain of breast, colour. It is dizzy that the pregnant response has appeared at menopause in about 6 weeks mostly for a long time, depression, weak, slept, has been afraid greedily coldly, the appetite has not been good, choose the mouth partial to a limited variety of food, such as like eating acid food, sweet food or spicy food,etc.. Disgusting in various degree or vomit in early morning, this kind of response, according to the personal physique characteristic, it is heavy that light to have, generally disappear at menopause by oneself in about 12 weeks. Tenth, the first child should do after marriage " The stream of people " ? Newly-married couple make stream of people at one farrow after marriage, take, fetch cautious attitude. Does not want to bear, has not taken the newly-married couple of contraceptive, it is so necessary that the gynaecology of hospital get, choose and implement suitable contraceptive device, in case that and gestation make stream of people. Certainly can't make the stream of people to say the women that has not born absolutely. If must make the stream of people, what's the best time to do? To woman that has not born, the earlier the better. Have a lot of hospital it launches limited to within the pregnant 40 day to be for a long time pregnant to inhale the intersection of officer and surgery already at present, the women that this kind of operation is suitable for not bearing. (www.qianlong.com)

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