The man graduates from university for one year and commits suicide and leaves the testament and says frankly the high pressure more

The man graduates from university for one year and commits suicide and leaves the testament and says frankly the high pressure more
A odd one
He says to the friend that is working by oneself, but parents say he has been staying at home all the time since graduating
Odd two
Parents speak he just do in the test and drive taking, but the friend said he had already given up having an examination, the driving license is false
Odd three
The friend says he has a girl friend and is often cheated by the girl friend, but parents say that never know he has a girl friend
8 points were about 20 points in the morning of yesterday, in bamboo West Road rooftop floor of residents of chaste tree, one was less than the 23 -year-old man to jump from the above and lay. 120 that come rescue half hour, the intersection of man and end this because overweight death of the condition of an injury. The dead Xiao Jun Zhou (Assumed name ) Graduate from the electronic University of Science and Technology in July of 2008, 23 full years olds this year. Zhou XiaoJun's father says having one's face covered with tears : " Will it be evening the previous day such as child still at home well, why walk after deciding to walk today? "
The only son leaves away family's agony endlessly
Morning 8 20 point about point, chaste tree the intersection of chaste tree and bamboo 7 No. spread one bored and loud suddenly in the courtyard 258 such as West Road such as bamboo, residents find a man falls in the residential building Under 5 buildings of Entrance 3. Zhou XiaoJun's father says, " L I heard someone jumped out of the building when reach downstairs, saw that fell on the ground alone at that time, but I had not expected at that time it was my son at that time. "
The father found and got up Xiao Jun late very at ordinary times but not in the bedroom in week coming back home, the father feel far from good immediately in four week finding the sons. This, a neighbour phones to tell him, Zhou XiaoJun meets accident. After father and mother in week hear news in week, get to the floor very worriedly. A Residential Area resident says, " L Saw clearly and lay after the ground is their son, two people stood at that time and can not stand firm. "
120 medical workers coming have carried on the rescue of more than half an hour to Xiao Jun Zhou, but because the condition of an injury is overweight and unfortunate and dead for end. In the face of this cruel fact, married couple cry loudly and wail at home in week.
Leave the testament to say frankly the pressure is enormous
Find a note-book in the room where police have stayed from Zhou XiaoJun before death, Zhou XiaoJun wrote in page one among them like this: " I am a person that likes freely, do not like being restrained. Succeed in, I will choose to be " L Benevolence " . My psychological pressure is too big, in addition, I have very great a lot of shortcomings, and more introversive person, so I have chosen to be " L Benevolence " . "
See this written on the testament on January 15, mother's hands stop trembling in week, " L I have never expected he will jump out of the building, does not know he has such a big pressures, he still strives to look in TV with his father smiling at on the previous day evening. " In week the father says, it was more than one year since the son graduated, tested the driving license just now, the family was planning to buy a car to let him work.
Does the cause of the death become work experience of mysteries is false?
Zhou XiaoJun leaves away hurriedly, difficult to leave family and friend to wipe the flat emotional trauma. Accompany by the intersection of regret and having one enormous doubting, what that real cause of the death. In the testaments of less than hundred words which Zhou XiaoJun leaves before death, have not mentioned what pressure oneself received on earth, choose, jump out of the building such an extreme behavior just.
XiaoJun good friend Mr. Feng before death Zhou says, probably in last October, Zhou XiaoJun rides a lady of handlebar of the storage battery to wound, that lady wants to look for Zhou XiaoJun to compensate 600 yuan, " L Zhou XiaoJun did not dare to tell family at that time, had no money on me, this thing has been dragged all the time. " Later on Xiao Jun Zhou has made a phone call to Mr. Feng, says that worked by oneself, but the salary has never been received. Mr. Feng says, " L At that time in order to encourage him to work hard, I told him the money I helped his cushion, let him work hard, lift beginning just can open classmate later. "
Mr. Feng say XiaoJun Zhou say oneself be security personnel, work, but because salary take place, get off never, so does not do just very happily . But Zhou XiaoJun's family claim firmly Zhou XiaoJun graduates, been staying all the time not to go out at home to work, until taking the driving license last year, the family did not plan to let him go for a drive. For getting the statement of the driving license, but Mr. Feng has statements besides, " L He gave up the examination of the driving school long ago, that certificate was false. " As to this, Zhou XiaoJun family members are incredulous, and show that will go to the driving school to verify.
Working pressure or emotional question of the suicidal inducement?
There is such passage at QQ individual of XiaoJun Zhou prove: " Person that I love have only one of you, people that you love but far too many, why end sad people always me each time, why did your mercilessness injure me again and again. I meant to accompany you to spend the later part of lifetime, let it be, it was kind that perhaps said good-bye to free. I who am ignorant have to choose a person how to hold out through the dark corner alone. "
Mr. Feng says, Zhou XiaoJun has met a woman on the net, he seems very persistent to that woman, but this woman often deceives him . Who is this woman on earth, Mr. Feng says he has not seen either. In week mother says, do not know the thing that the son falls in love, " L Family members do not know he has a girlfriend. "
Psychological expert : Should appraise oneself correctly
Chengdu the intersection of mental hygiene and the intersection of centre and clinical psychological the intersection of head of the department and original mattress say, will it produces key issues of suicide to be to judge improper oneself one. A kind of person comments on oneself very low, think oneself ability is not enough, what is done to won't do, and then will produce Lenovo, think the people around all dislike oneself, want to go down and probably fall into the blind alley according to this kind of thinking. Another kind of people have too high psychological expectancy on oneself, when and is expected to produce the conflict in reality, will produce the extreme idea.
Former mattress say people always runs into various questions in the course of growing up, but all these are only inducements. The internal cause including personality characteristic, ability to mediate psychology and ability to stand setback is a subject problem. So people should learn to comment on oneself objectively first, make the correct localization to one's own ability. Then realize correctly with one's own present ability, what kind of work the society can offer for oneself, try to admit the present state. It is the mental preparation to be done a good job of the setback finally.
Present social pressure is bigger, the original mattress advises people to exchange with family voluntarily after meeting the question, get family's help, family should offer more understanding and support too. When the setback, the psychology which keep positive that try hard, affirm more oneself. (Small imperial Li Xue of West China City Newspaper is prosperous ) (Source : Sichuan online )
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