The man indulges in the net and visits wife's great pain and helps the husband to give up network addiction in unemployment
Xiao Li is 28 years old this year, originally have a happy family, job of a honourable high salary, it has been the expenses that he supported the whole family too all the time, but because two brothers of Xiao Li do not get along well in the same unit's job, the elder brother has constant little trick privately, make Xiao Li degrade and lower the firewood, Xiao Li resigns the work. In some time later, Xiao Li looked for a lot of jobs, but all failed, the question of Xiao Li's vexed work on one hand, on the other hand the wife has been blaming the husband all the time, two people often because the work is caused and quarrelled, in order to mediate the pressure, have been indulging in in the network game all the time after Xiao Li's unemployment, there is fewer and fewer communication between couple, the emotion is light with it too. Nowadays, wife's greatest hope is to hope the husband can come out from closing oneself, repair the relation between two couple, give to a warm and happy family of children again.
While the predicament appears in a family, if kinsfolks will make our original predicament worsen further by bad tackling the way. As the above-mentioned case, what they adopt is complained about by each other, the destructive way to blame, but not to disappointed each other with constructive way that back each other, his result, them more and more. This family not only gets into a difficult position economically now, but also gets into a difficult position on the conjugal relation. In family, couple subject, economy subject, must set up above these foundation while being other.
Analyze from sexual relations, the man is external and just strong, the fragility of heart; The woman is the external fragility, the inherent one is just strong. When the man is low, need the woman's support, understanding, encourages and comfort most, in this way he has greater energy to come out from the low ebb step by step. So long as the man is tall and big in the woman's mind, strong, then the man is sure to behave and not let woman down.
In addition husband want, learn some even more can help, get oneself perhaps while being tolerant, give some his wife may need, get game go release pressure while being tolerant. In addition, the biggest predicament is it is communicated and not understood that couple are scarce each other at present in this family. Hope madam can give the husband some courage and encouragement, hopes it is tolerant and understanding that the husband can give madam some, perhaps they have different skies .
Gentle Shen great(the intersection of Guangzhou and white the intersection of cloud and psychological the intersection of hospital and Professor)
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