Do men and women have different soul? 's psychology explores the secret
It is lonely that the woman often sinks into, the man often sinks into loneliness. You should keep the woman's heart here, should buy nightdresses for her first; You should catch the man's heart, must catch the man's stomach first.
We can say from the psychological activity that is man or women alone to a certain extent. John of psychologist who studies the psychological difference between two sexes middot; Grey speaks in images the man comes from the Mars and the woman comes from the Venus. It was difficult like understanding the E.T. so understood opposite sex, just most people need with ldquo; Alien rdquo; Make love or get married, no matter how difficult all of us need to understand them.
The man likes going fishing
Reason: Release the instinct attacked in the heart, pursue the realm of the harmony between man and nature
If you observe the person going angling in the park, will find the male quantity far exceeds women among them. This interesting phenomenon not merely takes place in China, show according to a statistics in Britain, 90% of the anglers are all men.
According to evolving in the psychological angle, this relates to men and women's division of labour in evolution. In early days in humanbeing evolution, the men with developed four limbs, with plentiful physical power are generally responsible for going out to catch preys, collect the food of meat. ldquo; Fishing rdquo; It is undoubtedly one of their basic tasks. And often gather the fruit, cook the food, feed children, ensure the logistics in women's duty. Moreover, it sometimes need to head out to fish, it is bigger to be dangerous for women. In the view of British anthropologist, this kind of ldquo; Contact rdquo; Has already carved in the male gene deeply, and a generation of a generation of place passing on comes down.
ldquo; Float sink at that moment whenever, I know fish rise to the bait, there is a kind of very much cheerful, amazing feeling at that time. rdquo; The fishing fan Eric describes. This kind, until the overall arrangement wait for for a long time, reached the excitement of the goal at last, the feeling while catching preys with ancient men is exactly the same. This has explained too why the man can take it so while fishing long with no words spoken, because while going hunting, the men are all of few words and standing spirit richly, no one wants to alarm preys after all.
Men still train stronger attack instinct in the course of going hunting, and this kind of attack instinct will be released when angling to fish. This behaves more obviously on male the west. Terry that a lawyer's office works says in Britain: ldquo; Can't let our end rifle go hunting everywhere. Fish, too can satisfy pleasant sensation of shooting, especially whom fish bite in the twinkling of an eye, feel just as hit the goal. rdquo; So, fishing makes the men find a kind of best release and attack the good route to raise in bad repair of the instinct.
In addition, as to man of China, fish not merely with having connections to go hunting. ldquo; China has entered the agro-farming society earlier, fishing became a recreation activity long ago. rdquo; Moreover, this kind of recreation activity is often ldquo of noble, court official, scholar, recluse; rdquo of patent; ,There are actually few women's chances to contact it. Also, fishing entrusts more cultural color in China, people realize the philosophic theory in life while fishing, it is patient to train, pursue the harmony between man and nature, carefree and content psychology. Jiang TaiGong once attracted Zhou Wenwang's attention by fishing, had appeared in " Zhuangzi " to the description fishing twice too. And to the pursuit of this kind of culture artistic conception, have become the reason that a lot of compatriots like fishing of today.
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