Men and women's _'s marriage psychology of little revealed secrets of the psychology between love

Men and women's _'s marriage psychology of little revealed secrets of the psychology between love
The woman has no reason overbearingly while falling in love. At the time of the love, everything is happy, but always a scene can often be seen by us: The man is late for several minutes while dating, the woman is angry, the head has not left and dated the place going back either, then explain, apologize succeed man at this moment" The magic weapon " . Passing some honeyed words " Apologize " And then, the woman forgives men, dating can continue.



In fact, it is not the woman that intends to embarrass the other side, but the woman is good at managing their emotion by such means. The psychologist Jung has pointed out, men have some womanlike psychological characteristics, women have a manlike psychological characteristic too.
The roles are different in men and women are in the love
Liu XiaoZhen educating the psychological referral centre of heart garden in Beijing tells " life Times " reporter, at the love, role that man act usually person who pursue, they expect, pursue happiness succeed. So ldquo in pursuing the mind; Her rdquo; When, the more wish eagerly to get the love of the other side, the easier to present and tenser and uneasier, then will seem gentle and show consideration for than any time. At this moment, the male psychological characteristic becomes more and more womanlike, relatively know how to understand and forgive the other side.
But women choose to set up the some so-called obstacles in the love for the boyfriend consciously or unconsciously, for example it can't be late to date, must remember her birthday and food,etc. which she likes, even hope that there is pleasant surprise on Valentine's Day, his purpose is to wonder whether the boyfriend can yield to oneself, little temper test them. When women had manlike this that paid attention to the characteristic wholeheartedly, can explain too why the woman in the love is very apt to be angry.



Lack the test a bit, have more trust
Liu XiaoZhen thinks, in the course of falling in love, women need more sense of safety, so it is perfect to hope for man performance and accomplish what they required just like that, when the other side can not do, woman choose angry to come on, express one's own dissatisfaction. It is late to date, does not represent he neglects you, may be true because the company has a meeting that delay some time temporarily, meet traffic jam, lead to the fact he have no idea appear and date the place on time at the road; Not having to the flowers or presents which you want on the birthday, do not represent either he has no you in the heart, perhaps he has better arrangement hellip; hellip; The woman is totally unnecessary to pass the ldquo; Obstacle rdquo; To test man's sincerity to you, not angrier.
Does the man often say, the woman that the love is angry is not beautiful, but how many does not angry woman have? The psychologist has said too the woman is angry because presents the manlike characteristic psychologically, they want to understand whether the other side really minds oneself through this course at the same time. However, the test again and again, will only destroy the trust between you, because will present quarrelling over, cold war, misunderstanding, suspecting in the test, go on like this, know ldquo too in even better emotion; Destroy rdquo; On one's own hands.
Finally, sex-health network of 8.15 kilograms reminds: No matter straight the intersection of men and women and friend in not loving deeply, enter man, woman in the love soon, yes don't be impulsive when the emotion, must not be because of a little minor matters, test the firm intensity of emotion between you in a manner to get into a huff, make the cold war. Especially women in the love, the emotion is set up on the basis of trust, angry to seem to be to lead your discontent to the other side off, but the back will hide your distrust and uncertainty to the emotion, once there is too much occurrence number, your emotion will thereupon flash the redlight, the possibility that will be brought then is one sentence: ldquo; Let's say good-bye! rdquo;
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