Men and women's _'s unmarried cohabitation of new art of war with deep emotion

Men and women's _'s unmarried cohabitation of new art of war with deep emotion

The modern's love, what's going wrong? Return, study carefully among them reason, writer Cao square Ms. say again: "We are from childhood, all energy and talent is put in going to school and working, the garden of the emotion is that one sheet goes out of cultivation naturally. "

This means though our external age has been already an adult, but on the emotional experience and tempering, most persons still remain at the stage of the primary school. So, if want while playing games in pair deceiving each other, gain the love, it is not enough to only rely on external glamour and condition, the love needs sophisticated skill and calm head even more like politics.
Fall suffering from full body scar the intersection of love and believer in love once, there is no harm in, study daughter, evil of evil man, handle ability of love. Because what the love needs is that intelligence is not a condition. It is not enough to only have iq and eq, will understand how to devise strategies at the headquarters.
The following are seven items of essential evil of the course of contacts men and women, though are called evil, in fact put glamour to good use, release the super secret skill of the conditions and customs. Have these seven secrets, even in the dangerous love great wave, you still have capital to brave the wind and the waves, reach the successful other shore!
Make the other side sad appropriately
Writer Mr. Wu RuoQuan thinks, in the course of associating in two sexes, promises easily it is often the greatest lethality of love, so make the other side sad appropriately, can let the mutual relation have elasticity even more, but make sure to keep in mind and does not make the lover in despair, it should depend on how many pressures the other side can bear to make that the size among them is affectedly bashful. " you will love me for a long time for example as the party among them of the love ask? " At the time of this kind of questions, if you know perfectly well that there are a lot of unknown parameters in the future, but sing and " love you to him for 10,000 years " instead ,Only afraid the emotion will be grown and changed in the future, the in rain name of making thin good fortune fall down into. However, if your answer is that " I will try hard, but does not guarantee! " Perhaps when the other side is spreading and listening to, will be a bit sad in the heart, but honest attitude, will encourage the emotion to transfer to more rational road and develop, and avoid unnecessary quarrel.
Make us intoxicated to fool around and banter in flirtation
Speaking of the love, everybody thought oneself was the most serious, but in the course that two people got along intimately, it will cause the unnecessary pressure instead that too serious. The love with some sense of humour, let people enjoy endless aftertastes instead. Men and women love deeply or for contacts of intending, fool around and banter in flirtation, say some honeyed words frequently appropriate, really contribute to the distillation of the emotion. It is the proverb spreading for a long time that silence is golden, not applicable in the love. The sweet words can be regarded as the flame of lighting the lust.
It is small and angry to encourage and love seedlings
Everybody has heard " The child who will make a noise has candies to eat " This sentence. In the past, our education always tells us not to " lose the temper at will " , " it is the unbred manifestation to lose the temper " When; But on the interdynamic relation of the contacts men and women, it is sulky secretly or excessively forgive so long as there are one parties, will only cause in the heart further grievance is smouldered day by day, will break out after all. In fact, so long as time, place, way are appropriate, send temper once and produce very great utility in right time, because of small anger, contribute to managing and adjusting the amphiphilic relation. Compared with sour cutting remarks, a temper of arising suddenly but stops before going too far, as to the leading right of the love, can receive the result becoming effective immediately instead.
Play the coquette in beautiful Xiucai's China
" whether book reach take side hate little " Category of the love that also can be applicable. It is to know three flavor among them, could exercise magic powers to flirt in the veteran in love, carry all before one. Everybody knows and gets a good buy by shopping around the reason not suffering a loss, if you do not possess any beauty, will pore over current events and collection of jokes of every week too at least, and in the treasure now when being the most appropriate, let others have experience of your special talent too, otherwise on this free and open market of love, without capital, discuss what competes with people.
So vertical to keep the distance to catch in advance
Oddly enough though, the lover keeps some distance at the beginning of associating, contribute to adding several and giving some attention to secret sense instead, and the feeling that ferment the adoration of the other side and is crazy about. The lover while associating should carry out this reason even more, if you hope to discuss a love done little by little without a break, you had better avoid it is together from morning to night, give the other side some more spaces and respect, can win the last victory instead.
The marketing love is set up the faithful degree of brand
Just think what reason impels consumers to especially die to the products of a certain brand loyally? The answer is, the good products often weed out the old and bring forth the new, is giving somebody fresh pleasant surprise constantly, it the more important thing is on lining as appearance,inside and outside in order to all. The products that rubbish coated in gold and jade may be deceived to a few wrong major parts, but why not keep patrons.
The love needs to offer the other side a feeling of freshness, surprised sense constantly too just like advertising goods, if have not developed because of the lover's relation, but retrogress. So if will set up lover's love loyalty to you, had better often give the other side a surprised feeling, a for example burst of present, can ask the lover to feel more warm limitlessly.
Take advantage of the departure rule that strength enables strength
In love and easy, difficult to keep, if want to propose saying good-bye voluntarily, that is more difficult. When it is all unable to tolerate the mutual situation that the love faces two sides, the decision of saying good-bye that the most painful one is no more than, because everybody has born" prefers people to shoulder me, does not wish me to shoulder people either " Sacred moral sense! But agony delay long, dangerous and just high, long pain or not so good as short pain.
Can say good-bye smoothly for not injuring the other side, make sure to keep in mind and does not push responsibility to the other side's body, the best statement, is no more than " it is that I am not fit for you. " Remember, should especially emphasize it is " I " Not fit for you! If the other side would still like to hit with you durably and fight, stand under not injuring the mutual position, also only leave without saying, leave for the best plan!


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