The loves of men and women must be known for five pieces of question _'s love time

The loves of men and women must be known for five pieces of question _'s love time

A relationship science teacher puts forward five pieces of gold rule in order to assess the reason why the long-term marriage succeeds. When you will choose a lifelong companion, nobody absolute should do the wrong choice, but when up to 50% in divorce rate, you know that there are a lot of people that are choosing he (she) Companion hour make being serious to be wrong. If you had the intention of looking for and having a companion all the life, should asked yourself in five questions here.

The question one: Do we have common life goals?
If you had already got married 20 or 30 years ago, that is a period of very long time. How do you plan to spend this period of time? Have a meal together, run? You necessary with him ' She) Sharing anything more meaningful deeper, you must have common life goals.
There are two kinds of situations in a marriage will take place: You can grow up together, or each growth. 50% people belong to each growth, want, make the marriage successful you know on the line in the intersection of life and ins and outs, what you want, then marry (or marry) A person like you.
Question two
: With him ' She) While sharing feeling with the thought, feel safe?
This question is involved in quality of your relation, " feel safe " Mean you can communicate with this person frankly and sincerely, good linking up the foundation is the trust. A bit honester to oneself! The target of confirming you are going to marry is that you feel very safe on the emotion.
The question three: He (she) One is worth admiring, very special person?
This question is meant: He (she) Is it a noble and sensitive person? How you test him ' She) (used at the end of a special alternative, or rhetorical question)?
Propose a bit here: He (she) Regard general foundation as the method of the personal growth? He (she) Improve oneself conscientiously? Someone is right " The good person " The next definition, that is some person who often endeavors to gain the upper hand and becomes the correct thing. So ask your remaining half: He (she) How to utilize him ' She) Time?
Basically there are two kinds of persons in this world: One kind is person devoted to the personal growth, another kind is a person who seeks comfortable life. That kind classifies comfortable life as the person of the goal, will enjoy the personal one the pendulum in the primary importance. In with him ' She) Went on the red carpet in the past, you must know this point.
The question four: He (she) How to treat other people?
Ability of promoting the interpersonal relationships to the most important thing is to offer. What is called offering, it is the ability making others happy. See whether this person likes offering very much? What kind of situation is he to the irrelative person of those fine long hair? For example: Waiter, bus driver,etc.. How does he treat parents and siblings? Does he know how to be grateful? If he gives to that his all people of the things do not understand gratefully, don't expect he will thank you. Does he know the Eight Diagrams and say others' unpleasant word? The person who knows the Eight Diagrams will not understand the lover, you can confirm very much if he treats others badly, can not be good either to you.
The question five: Hope to change this person after marriage?
There are mistake of too many criminals, just hope to " change " after marriage His spouse. You may hope somebody changes after marriage May become worse, if you can't totally accept he (she) The look like this, you have not got ready to be going to marry yet. Summarize to say, you should spend more heads to use little pastry at love stage.


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