Whose greatest _'s pre-marital cohabitation do men and women cohabit era of having a trial marriage

Whose greatest _'s pre-marital cohabitation do men and women cohabit era of having a trial marriage

Man and woman always try every possible means to disguise when in love, the poise going to mould a good image to become reconciled, gain the liking of the other side with all advantages, too try every possible means too, cover up one's own insufficient place abusing any means
With the shortcoming.
Cost having a trial marriage
After this contacts false and fictitious and untrue in kind, once two people receive that law " paper " ,After becoming couple, while beginning to fulfil duties of couple and obligation, one pot of bowls wooden dipper spoon in actual life begins to " play music " ceaselessly ,From the beginning lyrical piece develop slowly to " The symphony " ,Develop into finally " The rock music " ,Each other true appearance and all shortcomings show truth in the collision little by little, this kind of understanding it in depth as first snow in winter to the other side's personality, hobby and pluses and minuses, it come already a bit later,etc. find by the other side really when on sex and personality has not been ideal spouses, what has been done cannot be undone.
The woman is " Have a trial marriage " Top old winner
This question has seemed to already get everybody's sympathetic response now, " it is inhuman to hold " This word can be used for describing entering ' encircles a city ' and those people discontended with marriage, have a trial marriage, contribute to, avoid this kind because agony that bring blindly before marriage, reduce the divorce rate, so the young people of much plan marriage, draw up plans and has not held, in order to avoid this kind " False" The agony that the wedding probably causes, choose to " have a trial marriage " ,Have advanced " Couple's life " ,Advance " break-in " ,With from sex and all respects to find the other side one's own a best one " Companion " . " have a trial marriage " Also be determining whether to get married again or not. A kind of progress and harmony of human nature of such behavioral embodiment society. ( woman's confidentials www.sifanghua.com)
Someone says, " have a trial marriage " It is in fact a new one that the man dallies with the woman " Shake the son " That is all. Actually this is not so, want to come carefully, having a trial marriage, latent wedding, the wedding flashes These have already become the sign of modern social young people's individual character liberation. And for thousands of years, though the status of man and woman goes through numerous covering and is rolled over, but especially on the question of the sex in the marriage, family, the man is a powerhouse all the time, woman the weak all the time, ancient man can have three the intersection of wife and four concubine, man can Sue shed husband and wife of the first marriage at will, and the woman can only leave it to chance, follow the man one marry, be he fowl or cur, it seems that there is no right to choose to the love, family and sex, even " rape " This word is nearly used in man's behavior to the woman violence, have not almost heard the woman rapes men. The present society, equality of men and women, sexual standards change earthshakingly too, that " roll messy and rough, cut constant always, it is messy to pay attention to " once Men and women issue,getting getting getting more more more prevailing nowadays " have a trial marriage " China has received the new explanation, that is to " have a trial marriage " ,Also mean in the present society, the woman can choose the man at will, " having a trial marriage " China, the woman will become the oldest beneficiary.
Someone says, the society has already entered " cohabitation time " ,Men and women can determine directly by sex this emotion can be for a long time on the basis of setting up the emotion, whether can maintain the marriage. In fact " cohabitation time " It is just a pronoun of the free love, but than " cohabit " It is ethical to conform with the society even more " Have a trial marriage " Have issue of sex and " Cohabit " The same, there are free love and sex choice too, the theory of this one ' sex is matched ' is reasonable, having a trial marriage can prevent the ' sex ' dose from not conforming. " As the saying goes: The marriage can be compared to the shoes, the foot knows that only comfortable. In the marriage, the sex is a very important safety coefficient too, the harmonious sexual life coordinates each other with the harmonious marriage, like both ends of the balancing, that need is that the two are balanced, namely both harmonious, otherwise the marriage will be facing the crisis. " having a trial marriage " China, regardless of the sex or other respects, the woman really has a right to choose as man, thus, the woman is exactly the greatest benefit person.
Certainly, this question is not to say the man has not benefited in having a trial marriage, it is a victim, this quantity that I actually think is a behavior won together, just compare with in the past and old idea, the woman may be the biggest winner on this behavior, and the oldest beneficiary too. It is that history is different after all, prerequisites are different! Moreover certainly, the men and women having a trial marriage, mostly in physiological mature period, though sex is the people's natural attribute, but can't have a trial marriage blindly either. Must set up to have a trial marriage above passionate foundations of men and women, have the tendency to step into the marriage palace, if both sides have no sense of duty in having a trial marriage, then " cohabit " follow With " feeling of a lot of night " There is no difference, the causing overflow with the sex self-indulgently, violate people's social attribute too.
Have a trial marriage, stand up theoretically, it is feasible, but in reality, having a trial marriage will not merely break through the old thought to confine, and double cautious, no matter the husband or the wife, because is trying to expect different results before marriage, and will make different choices, this different choices or bringing the happiness to you to different results soon, also perhaps bring greater grief to you, so someone says, don't take one's own happiness and do stakes easily! Experts have said: "Having a trial marriage has a healthy psychology at first, the correct method is to set up sexual life on the emotional foundation, if men and women have a deep love, clearly know to the sexual relations, it should be all right to have a trial marriage. If is only meeting demand, without emotion, the result of having a trial marriage is self-evident. "


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