's interpersonal psychology of skill that the contacts should pay attention to between men and women

's interpersonal psychology of skill that the contacts should pay attention to between men and women
Certainly, the current society is a society that advocates equality of men and women, but there can't be " sexism " at all either in communicating ,But we must admit " Males and females should be treated differently " ,There are very great differences after all in the way in the psychological characteristics and handling affairs of man and women. Fully understand this, have essential function in increasing the success rate that we link up the activity.



Regard communicating as a kind of skill, fully understand that it is essential to link up the target's characteristic. A fact is perhaps what no one will deny, that is that half of population is the same as your gender in this world, but the person of the remaining half, belong to your ldquo; The opposite sex rdquo; One kind. Someone says: Women can hold up half the sky. That is to say, this ldquo; rdquo of day; Half of man and half the women. And as linking up the target, half of man and half the women of everybody, the linking up half of same sex and half the opposite sexes of the target of you in other words. So in communicating, understand the opposite sex's ability is extremely essential.

Some people regard communicating with the opposite sex as ldquo; Conquer rdquo; The other side. Whether this statement is appropriate for the moment no matter, but the reason why use ldquo; Conquer rdquo; This wording, it is probably the difficulty of communicating with the opposite sex in the explanation. The fact is really like this, there is linking up the occasion of opposite sex, people will all make the civilization, it is not so careless to speak either, but the most difficult, understanding the psychology of opposite sex, try to adopt ldquo; Suit the remedy to the case rdquo; Way of communication.

In fact, there are two most key principles of communicating with the opposite sex: First, take certainly attitude and cordial attitude, don't talk about ldquo to the opposite sex easily; No rdquo; ,Because is so relatively apt to injure the self-esteem of the other side; Second, seem self-confident, don't seem tense once contacting the opposite sex, can't be calm to get along. Certainly, the mutual respect when the opposite sex communicates is essential, otherwise bring the unnecessary misunderstanding. For example, treat people hospitable and natural, honest and simple, it is originally a kind of virtue, but if does not divide the occasion, not seeing the target, demonstrate anyone affectionately, frank and outspoken, like engaging in a small talk, will probably cause the misunderstanding of the other side, even produced a certain wrong association; Man declaration and confidence in the the intersection of women and boudoir in quarters for the single should link up occasion ldquo easily in this kind; Show people rdquo; ,This not only respects the behavior of the other side, it is the manifestation of the self-respect even more.

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