It is easy between men and women will have been wrong for six pieces of signal _'s love time of the purpose
In order to help the mistaken idea that you shelter from the emotion, we have written down this emotion signal easiest to twist. Before your appointment next time, might as well browse carefully.
Signal one: Take " electric bulb "
As you say: "May I bring a friend? " In fact you want to say: I want to have supper with you together very much on Friday evening, but about one very best girlfriend in advance of mine, I do not want to let her down. In addition, I want to let her see how excellently you are too.
He thought you were saying: I do not want with you alone.
It is originally such: When a man wants to have one two people world, it is not pleasant things that the other person joins again. " I plan to spend weekend with the small black pigment, " Small gold and little black pigment are only friends, hope to take advantage of this travel and promote understanding, "finally, but she asks me, whether her friend can join. I think, that time, she looks for a kind of sense of safety. Several months later, I find the small black pigment is originally very interested in me, but because family's crisis happened to her friend, small black pigment want, let her feel better some with one happy a weekend. I did not think she had felt about me at that time. "
In order to do the best to prevent the pursuit interested in you from placing obstacles, let him not think you should bring an electric bulb to hinder you from further keeping in touch intimately on purpose, we propose: "If you do not just want to break the promise to a friend, say to him, I actually want to see you very much, but already had a previous engagement. If possible, we can go to drink coffee together after sending her to go back in the evening. " If you want to let your green light signal more obvious, you can commend him and say: "I have spoken of you to her, have that good personal website which you established. "
Signal two: Who checks
As you say: "Our dinner Dutch treatment. " In fact say: "I am really wholehearted to you, but the 21st century now, I have already had a very good job, and just made some money. Have no reason to always let you pay for the meal for me, right? " The signal which he receives: "I do not want to think what owe you because of money. "
The in fact appropriate transmission signal is originally such: Who pays and says absolutely clearly, a simple rule is - --Who proposes inviting whom to pay.
"I hate oneself to be regarded while dating as a little woman. " A girl says, " but if he insists on, I let him pay the bill, then if we went out to eat the dessert or drink something, I come to foot a bill. After such first appointment, we or Dutch treatment. Another choice is: Let him pay the bill, but it is next time to suggest I take him to a bar, there is good. "
Signal three: After helping
She says: "Can you help me to install my new home theater? " This means: "I want to further understand you in a comfortable, gentle occasion very much. " He understands: "I need a man like you to support my life. Waiting for you in man-hour, I will give you the reward that you like. "
Help a young girl with difficulty to be that each man is born the sense of duty, regardless of repairing her stereoscopic audio amplifier or handling her salted vegetables jar. "The friend introduced him to me, thought I will like very much, I wanted to make the first appointment of ours a little more ordinary, "" when he helps me to lift and go home that the sub eyebrow still remembers, she has bought a floor lamp there while strolling around the supermarket, I ask him to enter the room and drink a cup of lemon tea. Where to think, just sat down, his arm hugged me "
In order to avoid these, had better be chosen other somewhere, but not come to your bedroom and thank him. The appropriate expression should be: I will take you out to dinner in order to show gratitudes. It or choose another friend in time ask to want you house with he.
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