How safe does the boy spend youth one

How safe does the boy spend youth one
Friends of parents, ripe day by day in your son's development, when present the second sex character, as he wanders up and down at the gate of the Garden of Eden curiously, want to spy upon it among them when is dense, do you realize, has your child already stepped into adolescence?
It is another peak period in curve of child's life in adolescence, very great change will take place physiologically or psychologically, thus it is puzzled and worried to bring some.
As parents, what knowledge should you tell boy about, how to help them to spend adolescence healthily?
First, find out about the second sex character.
Appearance that the most outstanding change is the second sex character in adolescence. In view of appearance appearance, show, look unfamiliar beard, the intersection of Adam's apple and puff, voice thicken, grow the intersection of body and mao,etc. mainly; In view of physiological function, the showing as function begins starting, can erect, pass out semen etc., prove young man's development has already moved to maturity, is capable of bearing, become the real man. The starting of the sex function has caused the psychological great change, has presented the sex consciousness, for example sex dream and thinking for opposite sex,etc.,for normal physiology, psychological phenomena in all these.
Second, treat passing out semen and masturbation correctly.
Have seen the people of " Dream of the Red Chamber " all knowing, the treasured jade is from " a state of visionary and emptiness " Wake up, only think a share of moist mucus is flowed out from lower part of the body, his shy red face, wonder why there is this kind of " children " Its thing. As parents, you should not let your child have this kind of doubt to the sex dream again. In the sex dream often with passing out semen, belong to the normal physiological phenomenon and nearly 80% of the unmarried young men can happen. Passing out semen can remove the internal intension to a certain extent, cause a kind of physiological equilibrium. Wounded " primordial qi " that it is not a morbid state, can not be big . Under the normal situation, two for generally every month is about three times, if happen every night for several times or nearly every week, abnormal. Sometimes flow out the transparent liquid in road junction of the urine, can draw and grow up silks, that is urethral secretion, should distinguish, this is a normal phenomenon too.
Frequently pass out semen in order to prevent, you can let children take off your coat and sleep, don't cover on the thick quilt for them, don't make them exposed to the yellow obscene calligraphy and painting,etc..
No matter men and women,to adolescence behind,at drive of sex hormone,will producing excited naturally, some children lead off by way of masturbation, releasing energy, the relieving is tense. This is a kind of reality that can't be avoided, parents should let children adopt a correct attitude towards.
Third, help children to mould the healthy one " Oneself " .
The key periods of adolescence grow uping, long knowledge, world outlook of taking shape, parents should help them to hold the course, make the youthful boat sail along the health channel.
First of all, psychological health. Strengthen in young people's ego consciousness rapidly, while moving towards the abstraction from thinking in image, parents want multidirection they teach science, advanced, healthy fresh things. If suspect, is jealous of, go against it instead when psychological, parents want calm analysis, don't mishandle.
Second, mood is optimistic. The mood of adolescence is apt to be excited, it is great to rise and fall, there is two obvious polarity, for instance wild with joy, roused to anger, desperate. Parents should let them learn the ability of self-regulation mood, often have a heart-to-heart talk with them, let them learn, treat, praise and criticize correctly, overcome mood to be easy to get up apt weakness that bend over.
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