The boy takes great pains with one's studies hands become it is difficult for the addiction to give up experts to construct the psychological desensitization law treatment

The boy takes great pains with one's studies hands become it is difficult for the addiction to give up experts to construct the psychological desensitization law treatment
" See the child puts the whole thumb in the mouth, suck so that the clicking the tongue is loud, I am afraid. " Ding Ding's father says, one year ago, whole family moved to a better place in the new home, Ding Ding's kindergarten changed too. Soon, when Mr. Ding goes to the kindergarten to meet the son, find Ding Ding does not play with other children, but hide and gnaw and point the head aside! He has hit a son for this, berating him mustn't gnaw and point the head in the future.
However, it is unhelpful to curse and beat. The behavior that the sound of chopping wood, plucking the strings of a musical instrument gnaws the finger is more and more serious . In order to let children give up " L The addiction " ,He uses various tricks up, wipes chilli oil, mustard,etc. on the hands of sound of chopping wood, plucking the strings of a musical instrument. " L I had never expected, it is washed or wiped off with the towel with water by the faucet that he will go to " .
Give up the addiction and count out
" More than half a year passed by, two thumbs of Ding Ding's are longer than a thick callus son respectively. Mr. Ding remembers to say, son several times gnaws the finger to gnaw to the broken skin and bleed, he has to buy for child and can stick to to create . However, the strange one is, this unintended act seems a little effective.
" The child may think that creating can not stick to deliciously, the result no longer gnaws the finger. " L In order to make children give up the bad habit, in three or four months in a row, Mr. Ding gives children two thumbs to stick to every day " Creating can stick to " ,Have used several hundred " R Creating can stick to " L And then Mr. Ding think the child gave up the bad habit completely, no longer stick and create sticking.
There is no material to arrive, is tearing and opening the second-class day when can stick to, Ding Ding's old trouble has been made. Mr. Ding say under being helpless, he has to continue, give child hands to stick to, create, can stick to. But create, can stick to too ineffective, child create, can stick to, gnaw even, create, can stick to, give up the addiction, declare that fails.
" L Desensitization law " R Affective
463 chief physician of hospital psychology dept. Wang Hong, PLA man of Shenyang, think, Ding Ding's behavior is one kind " L The separating is anxious " ,It is a psychological disease, the psychological discomfort has very great relations after this changes the kindergarten with the child, especially parents only pay close attention to the child's behavior, the psychology to the child is not enough to pay close attention to, neglect its mood and cause.
Wang Hong proposes, as parents, should find out about the child's psychological situation more, needn't be too frightened to the child's behavior, understand the child the reason why presents the properties of such behavioral back. She proposes letting Mr. Ding and wife reach an agreement, adopts " L The psychological desensitization law " R Treat.
Mr. and Mrs. Ding reaches the agreement with the child: Determine as, gnaw the intersection of finger and time will it be 20 minute leave school, every day, Ding Ding can place any gnaw finger at home freely, but other time right away forbid. A few days at first, going home, Ding Ding is too impatient to gnaw the finger in the sitting room, in front of family, he uses the strength of sucking the breast, gnaws so that the clicking the tongue is sound one day he is gnawing, saw parents, suddenly the face was red, " L Titter" R Having smiled, Mr. and Mrs. Ding smiles too. Later, Ding Ding would never gnaw the finger.
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