Male white collar is four kinds of enemies and friends

Male white collar is four kinds of enemies and friends
A male white collar is in the office just as in battle field, if there are a lot of friends, meeting anything will come victorious out of the crisis, die in an accident luckily; If are all enemies around, it will be a " stray bullet " to hide in the trench Want the small life. So male white collar must open eyes wide, who does it see clearly an enemy, who are the friend. Analyzing, the enemy in the office probably has four kinds. First kind of enemy: Man Mr. get along with man Mr., carefully you. In front of him, neither very good, not too badly competently competent. Do very well, will let him produce the crisis awareness, a mountain does not allow two tigers, maybe look for a chance and get rid of you. Do too badly, will let him look down upon, the man looks down upon the weak innately, they like having dealings with person that oneself has similar intelligence. And the man is the fellow with very deep stereotype, so long as you have a thing to do so as to let him think very " retarded " ,Then you don't want to stand up all one's life under him. You do well later, it is only that " the people in Jiangxi have good fortune of Jiangxi " too in his eyes . Man Mr. is born to taking a shine to under the woman, and dislike under men. This can not blame him, it is the same too that you have become a boss. In that case, you yourself have to act carefully, do not fight for the affections of a man or woman with the woman colleague, including anything. Second kind of enemy: When woman boss and woman boss chat, must not refer to that beautiful and young girlfriend of yours. The identity that but the woman's jealousy does not divide the occasion, have nothing to do. The woman boss has worn the new clothes to go to work, the time when sometimes pays attention to don't be over three seconds, finding; Sometimes must force oneself to pay attention to for more than three minutes, can still speak and highly praise if necessary. Among them,must not table feelings wrong. There are a lot of taboos: Don't ask age, don't ask the family situations and don't ask her what was done in the past, don't ask her education, no Woman bosses are often very nitpicking at work, because when they are in position of yours, because of their gender, the criticism received is twice that the male staff member received, you certainly can't expect them to be soft and kind-hearted now. If it happened that she is a feminist, several long hearts much of yours. Third kind of enemy: Then the man colleague is a group of fellows without grade, ignorance! Know all day that analyzes the dressing of the woman colleague, size of measurements of the chest, waist and hips, or else quotations on the stock market, there are soccers. It's a pity, woman none of colleagues like speaking to them, if give them a smiling face, it must be that they have certain value. They are not restrained, the crown of the head of top wind of wind vies for running errands, really make man lose face. They speculated in shares none has earned a lot of money, will puff oneself up to one's own cost, it seems that everybody is several million and fight with a weapon inside. False news of side road transmits every day, make you enter stock market set for half a year. " barking dogs seldom bite " ,This sentence is really a maxim. They call Maradona as Brazilians, proclaim oneself " steel pole football fan " ,Than " iron set " Return irons, let the popularity not come from a place. As for the work, can probably do to participate in you a bit better while having no them. Fourth kind of enemy: Woman colleague's beautiful woman colleague is very disagreeable. Can't on intimate terms too, they too apt to make a noise, produce illicit love affair, let you shoulder " toad lust after a swan's flesh " Notoriety,rival in love that be also will if you can't cause, it is countless and baffled had. But can't drift apart very much either, because they are often full of confidence to one's own beauty, you keep someone at a respectful distance to them, they will produce three kinds of assumptions: First, this man has a question physiologically; Second, this man has a question psychologically; Third, this man all have a question physiologically or psychologically. In a word, you ignore her beauty, you become her mortal skeleton enemy, there are your good fruits that have been eaten afterwards. It is got hold of that such partly accepting and partly rejecting sense of propriety is very difficult, " offside " soon carelessly . The beautiful woman colleague has a bad habit, like bad people to do things at will. Because the one that received while as a child loved, they always thought it was right and proper that the man ran errands for them. Reciprocate? At most it is one piece of seductive eyes or every one light, flirtatious "thanks you! You are always good! " In addition, some in them likes dressing up so as to make people full of fancies, influence working efficiency very much. The plain woman colleague is very disagreeable too. They are mostly workaholics, do not have woman's flavor. However, if they are feminine, will initiate to come flirtatiously, most men will be too much to more bear. In this case, not are all people enemies in the office? It is not certainly so, we can also find four kinds of friends very conveniently. First kind of friend: The man boss if he is similar to you, you can call each other brother with him, and look on his way to handle affairs with a cold eye. When being as you old, he become boss of you, believe you can learn a lot of anything from his body. If he is a little elder than you, you can do the friendship between generations with him, realize the older generation and treat the world view. You can imagine secretly, if you are in his position, how will do, result will finer or worse, thing that you learn can little either in this way. The man boss draws a clear-cut line between reward and punishment, there is not emotional factor that will play a chemical role while increasing sb.'s wages. Can run thing well, they seldom will worry about petty gain or loss you want travel charge that wipe out and treat with courtesy fee. Can let the man boss organize the team of the company in the name of building the corporate culture, it is crazy to just go out and play for a period of time at regular intervals, so long as invite him to work as the coach or leader, generally he will pay the bill in the top of happy crown of the head. Second kind of friend: You should believe the woman Mr. a bit, yes in the heart of hearts, the woman is kindhearted. No matter how grave and stern on their surface is, how unnatural, but they have a soft place in the heart, it is their maternal instinct instinct. Under a lot of occasions, can realize the intentions that you stoop to compromise in the woman boss' carefulness, will not regard your good intention as donkey's liver lung, so it is all right for so long as you to do things according to the conscience. When the work conflicts with the family, love, they will help you reasonably, leave vacation on you or pay out wages ahead of time. So long as you are well-behaved conducts oneself, honest secretary, they do not have reason that will embarrass you. If the woman boss thinks you outstanding enough, but you have no girlfriend, perhaps she will introduce one to you. Succeed or not, this you it establishes private friendship to be good Opportunity. Third kind of friend: The man colleague has a psychological book to say, it is the easiest to working to the person of late into the night to produce good opinion with him shoulder to shoulder for a man. As a piece of white collar, work overtime to with man colleague
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