Male psychology: Dissect " green cap neurosis " 's marriage psychology

Male psychology: Dissect " green cap neurosis " 's marriage psychology
Nowadays, there is such a psychological phenomena in the society --The man often goes out by oneself, even does not go home all night, does not think either that there is improper any, but if their wife presents the same situation, the men will be ladenned with misgivings, fidgety, neurosis psychology of green cap known as male psychology too of this kind of situation.
The green cap neurosis of the male psychology is analyzed:
The men all fear the green cap
In fact, look from psychological angle, this is that man's heart is hiding " The unstability sense " ,We pop ask for the time being " Green cap neurosis " ,here plant " Non- stable " What happened to to fear the wife and carry oneself. Research indicates, the woman is well-above man's trust on the wife to the husband's trust. This is unanimous with actual life --The man can drink, play mahjong bold and assuredly all through the night outside, coax a few words to send to the woman, and the man is not often this kind of situation to the woman.
Monopolize the psychology in sexual behavior
There are sexual behaviors, will inevitablely leave the secretion greater in quantity on the pants, this husband " The detection means of chastity " It may well be straightforward, the secretion " The ones that become his distrust psychology " The substitute " ,Have taken shape " The secretion " =" Overstep the limit " Psychological strange circle.
Another kind of typical one " Doubt the wife " The behavior is --To the men around wife, demonstrate strong disgust, colleague, classmate, friend even relative, the man, the frequency is larger that get along, especially there are many chances that the wife mentions, him " Throw into the blacklist " ,Bearing this share " The blacklist " ,Accumulate strongly fragrantly and become " Green cap neurosis " ,Study, arrange wife and these in colored attention " The suspicious target " Contact frequency, field and time,is it high-level to in guard for a long time and not last state, always think " There is such a thing " ,But can not always stress the handle.
Extension of virgin's complex
The reason why this kind of distrust forms is numerous, several types that but only stand up synthetically: First, " Virgin's complex " Make it right, wife when get married " It is not the place to be suspected " ,Or very clear, oneself is not the first lover of hers; Second, remarried couple, two people all have wedding history, and there is the one at various degrees " Long for and go through again " ; Third, feel self-humiliation the psychology does mischief, this kind of situation is generally that the wife is extroverted, the undertaking wants more than the husband at work " Turn out a prestigious institution " , there are woman's strong man's weak phenomena; Fourth, say, are perplexed by the special example around.
In fact, such male psychology stated hereinabove is a kind of very unhealthy psychological condition, the most important one among couple is the mutual trust, only emotion and marriage based on foundation of trust are happy, firm. If the men are always so terribly suspicious, will make couple's emotion produce the crack instead.
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