Boyfriend with former the intersection of girl friend and mother Len _ fall in love time

Boyfriend with former the intersection of girl friend and mother Len _ fall in love time

Ann woman is an architect 30 years old
Boyfriend and I have already nearly five years in love, also thought I had already known him well, believe in him very much, the emotion has a deep foundation too, so
I have never thought of having any big problemming that will happen between me and him, even have, firmly believe with our emotion, can tide over any difficulty.
However, I over-evaluate the trust to him, or should say, I over-evaluate my emotion to him. The thing is such: Two years ago, we. We discuss our sex history under the happy mood. Having talked about before these a bit, because we are all open lovers, once a phase of feeling history that he told me this time, but make me very shocked. Originally, he, in 21 that year such as year old, and the girlfriend's mother there has a ambiguous relation at that time unexpectedly. He says that is not an emotion, just curious to her health completely, but she has strong maternal instinct, emotional life is hollow, and the husband is that his girlfriend's father has not had a sexual life yet, so the relation has happened confused in one's thinkingly to everybody. As a result has been penetrated by the girlfriend, has parted on bad term, broken with her mother too.
Though that has already been his thing ten years ago, I felt very sick. 21 years old has not already been children, how to make this kind of thing of failing to see the sense of propriety? And that is the girlfriend's mother, does not he know it is an unacceptable ethical question? I was constrained one's own disgust at that time, because did not want to destroy the originally very good mood, but after coming back, have been feeling very uneasy all the time, has discovered that can't understand his idea and behavior. Is he the psychopathology? Why can is there the desire? This influences me to be very deep, even feel with him when being intimate and resist it fully delays two years, I can't help telling my feeling to him finally, I was unable to accept he was that kind of person. But he says that is a bygone, does not understand why I am so conservative. I'm afraid to be already unable to continue and he has been in love.
Understand too little the two sexes
Man's thing that curiosity and puzzlement to the sex are very general at the young time, certainly not mean either, all men can hand in excessively with this reason, do the irresponsible sexual behavior. Finally the boyfriend was getting affectionate with the girl friend's mother in a situation that how is it that year, the other side enticement does he or he take the initiative? Perhaps even his party can't understand, but the thing happens.
This is a bygone, how is he now to think, whether you can accept it is a question, because will influence your acceptance of him. Will he long for last year the long woman's human body too now? Is it inclined to that he is abnormal in sex? More important, with sexual behavior and display getting problematic of you now such as he? Make you unable to stand? Two people are in love, the communication of emotion and sex is very important. If has not just crossed for the psychological pass, it influences the present words not to stand his once immoral and over sex history, really need to think carefully, the question is not merely at his place. Sex in opposite sex understand, really is enough between the two sexes, women need to one's own sex too ignorant, will influence the husband to one's own behavior and trust too like this. You do not love for his past. Open the heart, say experiencing, forgive and understand each other, it is new each other every day.


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