The boyfriend is an undertaking Conceal his whereabouts _ love clinic

The boyfriend is an undertaking Conceal his whereabouts _ love clinic

I have got along with the boyfriend for 6 years, in these 6 years, the love is vigorous and over, often awfully busily noisy for minor matter too, return the cold war for a long time, everybody pays no attention to the other side. Having reached age of marriage recently, family members, friend, all urge us to get married, it was numerous too that what I looked at at one's side married people age, expect too age looks for a home oneself.

But the boyfriend does not think we two's work is very steady, the income is not very high, there are no enough economic conditions to get married. Can get married afraid very, because economic question divorce, injure to both sides loud at that time, this recent more than 1 year for in addition, we two, often quarrel for the minor matter, cold war, hurt one's feelings, he himself worries too, hope that can have some achievement in 30 years old undertakings oneself. At a lot of pressure, in addition, we often quarrel, he proposes saying good-bye, and very firm, say that want to rush in the undertaking wholeheartedly to me, does not want to consider other problems. I am very sad, understood too oneself was too wilful in the past, hoped to retrieve, resumed. Under efforts in I retrieve, find two people love the other side, 6 years together such as we after all, happy there is a trouble,
We have become reconciled again.
However, our atmosphere of getting along is totally different with before. Though he said in the past said what did not used to to me, required by me, he does it in this way too. But he does not want to let me know his whereabouts after becoming reconciled, doing something, in fact I hope to care about it too, does not supervise him doing. He think I in charge of he, ask I no matter he, want life style that find oneself.
I very anxious, life style of him may freely, but must freedom have seat of me? And we two continue going on like this, everybody does not know the other side is doing anything, what very good communication is it? He worries, he wants to gather to struggle for the cause, this is understandable, but can not consider a little of me? The emotion is certain to be light to go down like this. The love will probably present a lot of crises such as he will run into the girl better than me, he will say good-bye to me.
I am very worried, because the love just retrieved, does not want to lose again. Want to find the appropriate way of getting along with him very much. Delay him rush undertaking on one hand, on the other hand can make our emotional distillation.


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