Men separate love and marriage

Men separate love and marriage
Love and marriage, this is that the young men and women one hundred talk about the topic not minded. They often liken love to the moonlight of JiaoJie, flower, murmuring flowing water, sun, colored rosy clouds, great waves, alpine pines and cypresses and beautiful movements in the sea red as fire in full bloom, the ones that so as to extol love are holy and pure and beautiful, gorgeous and fragrant, pure and unreasonable We are named men and women in love for love period to this antenuptial period. So far as development process of the love, we can say, the happy marriage is a climax of the love, it is the development and sublimating of the love, it is the inevitable home and are extended, it indicates the love enters a new stage. However, we can see some men having idea different from this in daily life, think: "The love is a love, it is to get married to get married, this is totally different. " Why? First, some men thought, the more loves are, the better loves are, it was the better that experiences were the more, can enjoy the happiness in life and seek to the real love in this way. In fact, the love of joining in the fun on occasion is one hundred and hurt and not have a benefit to life, the real love may not necessarily be got inside either. So-called these " The experienced one " Should understand, it is foundations of the love to regard for oneself and sincere. Second, some men think, it is interesting that the love is full, can get married and have no meaning. They always think all day long " Involve in hunting for novelty newly " ,It is not a purpose to get married for them, it is just a " result " at most . The low person as to this kind of morality, young girls should watch out for. Third, a lot of men are very interested in the course of the love, has thrown into very great enthusiasm, but does not want to finish this kind of life which is full of romantic color. The love will be indifferent naturally after they get married in fear. These men should understand, love stage and life is two totally different periods after marriage, the transition from lover to couple can be said even reach the realistic transition from romanticism. It doesn't mean the love is indifferent naturally, not equal to the love and will be strengthened naturally either to get married. The love includes the extensive social content and deep, the content of the cultural life carved. Mr. Lu Xun says right: "The love must be often upgraded, grown, created. " If your condition has been already ripe, I hope you form the good match early, set up happy family, the ones that and make it become your love " The new starting point " . Fourth, there are some men, they hope to combine with one's own sweetheart too, but entertain the psychology that a kind of expectation can find the better lover again at the same time. The lover that perhaps he is present though the different fields are very good, a little or place that can't make him satisfied at two o'clock, he " lifts chess uncertainly" ,Always expect the miracle to come. In fact, such a person does not know how " people do not have perfect person " ,The harmonious and happy conjugal relation key lies in the creation after marriage. The fifth, there are some men too, they require the difference to target of the love and target of getting married. The target of the love is affectionate and sentimental, gentle and sweet, the interest is extensive that they hope, but demand to know the own business, be healthy, good at keeping house etc. to the target getting married. So, they like distinguishing love target from target of getting married. Finally, we hope each lovers and each couple offer mutually, mutually like, mutual trust, help each other, encourage one another, mutual concessions, learn, understand mutually mutually sincerely! Transfer it to from the psychological hot line in Shanghai

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