Boyfriend Do you love me or love evil spirit beast's _'s love clinic

Boyfriend Do you love me or love evil spirit beast's _'s love clinic

Expert's profile: Lu Yue, Yan Yuan of Peking University is rich to think in the psychological reputable psychological consultation division of referral centre, marriage and family emotion expert.

Teacher Lu Yue
Net friend's doubt:
Something makes me very worried. I live with boyfriend, since buying the computer, the boyfriend indulges in in the network game which is called " the beast world of the evil spirit ", have more than half a year till now. Everyday now " The residence " Stay indoor at home, speak with me little more too, has never contacted me voluntarily, he is very impatient that I make in the telephone, even will shut down simply sometimes. Whether I do not know he loves the network game, or love me.
A few days ago, I forced him to participate in the party together, he was shapelessly slovenly, exchange, have question with others, bored to say no word there. The classmates all thought he was ill, I have to force a smile perfunctorily. Does this game have anything interesting? A group of persons hit and kill back and forth, wastes the money if not. I thought our emotion will have a crisis at once, but did not know what is to be done!
Teacher Lu Yue answers questions:
The situation according to the information of your, your boyfriend has lost the initiative contacted with you in actual life because of being crazy about the network and swum, one's own correctly
Life seems to lose a certain control too, even untidy, it is difficult to communicate with others, to take a blame unreasonable you. But I think network visit network have any question, if have any further problems to crazy about person that network visit. A lot of people play with the network and swim, but not influenced life.
But if you want, solve problem, first problem that should first solve whether you can understand what let " the the intersection of evil spirit and beast " Your boyfriend " Seize " ,What lets this game be so interesting? If you are unable to understand this, you are unable to understand why the boyfriend turns into this look of today.
Network game is full of typing killing, in this fictitious world, the interpersonal relationships become very simple, everything according to " The rule of the jungle " Act, you think who be well, can hand get up knife fall, so long as you pay enough time and energy at once, can become " The despot of one party " ,Certainly today, the network game became a kind of sports item, should really become " past masters of martial arts circles " Also need certain skills and talents, the network game can provide another entry of the world for somebody, the day of the fictitious world is better than actual life, this quite attracted a disppointment molecule in actual life, let them have " The Peach Garden " ,Can avoid the agony difficult to bear.



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