Boyfriend want say good-bye to me for friendship _ fall in love clinic

Boyfriend want, say good-bye to me for friendship _ fall in love clinic

Pour out to people: Zhang LiShan, female, 24 years old, hairdresser
Zhang LiShan says to me, have discussed the boyfriend for four years has said good-bye to her crying on the phone, and it is unwilling to see her to hide from now.
When the newspaper office sees Zhang LiShan
The thing several days after already, this is a delicate and pretty girl, wear the long hair of the scarf, the white one does not have sleeve dress that let her look fresh and beautiful. She at this moment has been already much more calm.
He has moved me sincerely
I have a small barber shop. 2004, know and wear it is in my haircut store if firm. He is my customer, he comes to the store, all call the roll and want me to have a hair-cut for him each time. At that time, Dai Yi's office was just near my barber shop, he always looks for.. in shop me and chats idle time.
I regard him as a friend getting along well very much, but gradually, I can feel Dai Yi does not treat me as the ordinary friend. I was not eager to discuss the emotion at that time, began to intend to avoid him. Later, when Dai Yi goes to the store to wash hair to have a hair-cut, even if he called the roll and wanted me to serve him, I let the subordinate casual girl labourer do, can not really break, I just make conversation with him dealing with too, have a hair-cut for him.
Later, Dai Yi began to go to the store to meet me and come off duty every day, sent me home. At that time, my shops all closed the door after 10 o'clock in the evening, Dai Yi accompanied and sat to me and closed the door. Several times, on the way of sending me home, Dai Yi says to me with one's head low timidly and timidly: "Become my girlfriend, I am easy to like you. "
Because while speaking the words, his voice is very small, at the beginning, I always pretend not to hear, still ask him on purpose: "What do you say? Speak a little louder. " So asked by me, he is more sorry, say in a hurry: "It doesn't matter, it doesn't matter. " There was once at last, on the way home, Dai Yi said that sentence to me loudly. I can not pretend not to know, deal with one this time: "Let's put it aside afterwards. "
Soon, haircut of me often firm flower sent here of head ornament in store. So long as the flower has withered, Dai Yi changes the fresh one at once. He insist odd months like this, finally, I begin to accept him slowly too.
In 2005, my barber shop changed the place, Dai Yi often goes to see me. That summer, we often come out to take a walk in the evening. One day, I make an appointment with Dai Yi, the bus stop near my home joins at 7 o'clock in the evening. When I planned to go out, my mother was scalded mother's large stretch of skin scalded and hot bubble that got up by the boiled water, looking at, I am so anxious that the tears have come out.
Can't think more, elder brother and I are supporting mother, has stopped a taxi's heading direct for the third hospital in Wuhan. After I get mother settled, come to the bus stop. But find Dai Yi still waits for me there. Seeing his persistent and patience, I am full of gratefully and feeling ashamed and regretful. Having finished listening to my explanation, Dai Yi has not not only blamed me, comfort me instead, let me look after mother carefully.
After that, it is worn that I have become the firm girlfriend formally.
His friend is heavy in everything
Accept after it is firm to wear, I love him wholeheartedly. Wear firm to lie in I very much too at the beginning, but he play, place very much important position on to old friend while as a child always.
One day shortly after after I fall in love with Dai Yi formally, Dai Yi comes to my barber shop to wait for me to come off duty early after coming off duty. A classmate of his celebrates birthday, he wants to lead me to participate in. That day, I closed the door and followed to wear so firmly as to go out very early. Dai Yi has a birthday cake made to order, after fetching cakes, he says in an unexpected place want to take me to me mysteriously.
The car that Dai Yi and I took has been parked in a small town after white shoal bridge. Yi Dai draw I stop in front of one quiet building, say to me proud while being a face with, this is his family. I am shocked: Why does he take me to his family crudely and rashly like this? Have not waited for me to think more, he has already entered the door drawing me yet. Dai Yi's parents are more cordial and more affable than what I imagined, I can experience they like me very much.
It was Yi most best friend Zhao Bin Dai that celebrated birthday that day. Bin Zhao follow, wear firm to grow up together while as a child, have, kiss the deep feelings such as brother several decades. Finish supper, Zhao come over by Bin and Dai Yi other friend, all celebrate birthday for Zhao refinedly. I was taken to and wore the firm family for the first time that day, saw his parents. Although I do not appear in the capacity of girlfriend, everybody has been already tacit, and I can be regarded as these friends introduced to Dai Yi formally.
I store with the getting along of Dai Yi in contradictorily and having different views. I, with colleague's classmates' party, Dai Yi is always unwilling to participate in, even will also prevent me from participating in sometimes; And Dai Yi meets friend, all want me to be accompanied around each time. It is this kind of minor matter, Dai Yi and I often make a noise awfully busily.
In June of 2006, I found oneself pregnant. Dai Yi seems very proud after knowing, jokes with the friend very loudly at home, let his parents know. His parents advise me to get married with Dai Yi as soon as possible. But Yi Dai think of, get married early, he advise me go hospital make, miscarry surgery. Though I want to give birth to the child very much, raise the adult, I do not want to come into the marriage too early either. Adding Dai Yi's urgency, I have no alternative to the hospital to do the operation. In this way, Dai Yi and I brush against marriage.
It is absolute and loyal and faithful that Dai Yi treats the friend, the friend ranks first in his interpersonal relationships chain. Zhao Bin is to follow and wear firm one related to iron the most among them. Wear firm no matter when and where remember birthday in Bin Zhao, how long I fall in love with him, wear the firm birthday when but never remember me.
First he remind, know second the third time whether the intersection of I and oneself tell him just through the intersection of I and casual girl labourer of barber shop. Especially when I celebrate birthday in June of 2007, is catching up with World Cup, unwilling to go away if Dai Yi sits in front of the television. When I pull open him by force, let him accompany me to celebrate with colleague, unexpectedly he says impatiently: "Not late and not early, why just born in June? " Expect he make all-out efforts, celebrate birthday while being refined for Zhao each time, I have sadness and bitterness produced to speak.
He says good-bye to me to the friend
It is some minor matters, I and wearing the firm dispute constantly, but I have not expected these daily trival matters will influence our emotion. Know until when begin either, when I phone Dai Yi, so long as Zhao refined nearby, Zhao Bin will say at the other end of the telephone loudly: "This kind of girl mustn't speak to her, what's the point. What do something she wants to do, you mustn't be in charge of her. " I know Zhao say so refinedly on purpose, do not know either it is everything that offends him. From then on, such a thing could not be controlled once began.
The disharmony of we has lasted several months, the quarrel of Dai Yi and I thereupon increases. Once I can not really stand wearing firm to my ignoring, conniving at to Zhao Bin, then to wearing so firmly as to propose saying good-bye.
That week, it is too firm to contact me to wear at all. I propose that saying good-bye will just cause Dai Yi to my attention, I will not really say good-bye to him. I take the initiative and phone to Dai Yi, tell him that I have fallen ill, hope he can lend me 100 yuan to see the doctor. I do not lack the money, I think under the pretence of this, see Dai Yi, become reconciled with him. Yi Dai promise, give me give money without the least hesitation, but the intersection of telephone and end that sound refined hateful voice those Zhao again at this moment: "Leave her alone! Don't lend the money to her "
I will be made crazy soon, say to Dai Yi that wants Zhao Bin to answer the call, Zhao Bin does not connect. I tell and wear firm if Zhao Bin does not answer the call, I phone to get to the Zhao 's, let his parents educate one's own son carefully. Zhao thought refinedly I frightened him, instigated there: "Let her hit, I am not afraid. " Not waiting for Dai Yi after saying the words, I hang up, set aside the telephone to the Zhao 's at once, it is the intersection of he and father that connect, I tell him father mislead of Bin Zhao, say he wants to break others, he lends the friend's money and does not return etc.. At that time, I felt very happy in the heart, exported the bad odor at last.
I did not think, it was this that caused me to say good-bye to Dai Yi's end unexpectedly.
This attack to Zhao very big while being refined, he receive the intersection of he and severe criticism of father, he has pushed all responsibility to me. Dai Yi is discontended with the thing that I am extraordinary because of this too.
I want, lose, wear firm, I may bow and conduct oneself for him. I begin, do the best, display the enthusiasm and courteous to him in front of being refined in Zhao, just as we could not never take place happily, but Bin Zhao stealthy people as me, when a lot of friend together, I totally regard to the intersection of what and he that him say as and has not heard. I know he is angry with me, let me not have face in front of all people. For Dai Yi, I always speak with him voluntarily, even assume the frivolous appearance, but in the heart is really bitter. Even still can't retrieve like this.
At one night in summer of 2007, Dai Yi and I take a walk by the street. Two people have been reticent for a long time, Dai Yi has proposed saying good-bye to me, the reason is that he can't lose this refined good friend Zhao, Zhao Bin and I, he can only choose one. I have stood it so long, that was obtained is such a result. I squat at the roadside crying bitterly, Dai YiJing goes ahead unexpectedly, see the so hopeless feeling of his, I am desperate, draw out the blade bought from the bag newly for the barber shop, cut towards one's own wrist, tear shed whole face, the blood has flowed in a place. Several minutes later, Dai Yi sees me not keep up with, he rolled over and found I who there is blood, have sent me to the hospital in a hurry.
Because cut the wrist, the love of Dai Yi and me has been only extended for several months. In that period of time, Dai Yi still always mentions Zhao Bin's name in front of me, all friends know the pain that I leave because of Zhao Bin, imply Dai Yi don't be carried, but he still speaks exultantly. I beg him not to treat me like this, don't always uncover my pain in the bottom of heart. The answer that Dai Yi gives to me is: This destiny of me, I and refined previous existence Zhao have hatred, I want, follow Dai Yi life this life, must stand such agony.
After April 15, 2008, Dai Yi disappeared from my life suddenly, did not leave me a word, it seems that he never appears in my world. I look for him crazily, reach his family,etc. frequently, even his parents see not to bear finally, let me not wait for him, go to look for a better person. I know Yi Dai hide from I, go the intersection of he and house once, I see he air his shirt on the the intersection of house and balcony, I understand his parents too.
One week after the interview, LiShan Zhang tell me whether she give up, wear firm completely already. She comes round, Dai Yi is not actually worth her making such great sacrifice for it. Zhang LiShan is planning to leave Wuhan for Hunan to work, resumes.


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