Does the boyfriend propose what if the requirement overstepping one's bounds? 's love clinic
The emotion of the net friend is puzzled:
Hello, do not know how to call you, but very unhappy in the heart, there are no direction and experience, want to look for somebody to have a chat, just like friend, it can be with an outsider's position to hope
,Help me to see this section of emotions, thanks!
Just associate with him for 2 months, long for in the strange land, it is the university alumnus, the friend introduced and knew, have a chat, meet half month on the phone, meet he embrace I kiss me for the first time, I am that the first time and a man are on intimate terms, does not very used to it, so it is very cold to behave, plan, separate like this, but after he leave, message, phone say think, love me very much very much, put down the emotion, I soft-hearted to promise two together again people.
Perhaps the reason why the condition of his family is better, so chase other women before saying more than once during chat, so long as chase for one or two days, those women will pester him conversely, never run into the person like me, can be so cool, I am actually very angry when he says this words, tell him everybody's idea is different in this world, it is different to pursue. Someone will pursue the material, someone pursues the happiness, see individual chooses, talk about this he is not sociable, but will present such speech next time, make people very repugnant. But what he will not suspend every day send messages and phone to speak and love me for thinking of me very much for me. . . Hope I can go the intersection of he and there, propose, 11 meet, can develop into intensity of sexual relations again too. But I do not think two people understand, should not develop into that step so early.
One day is very late, he asked me suddenly, what if it will never contacted that we separate one day, have a premonition that there are things, question him, it's proved his former girl friend comes back to let him hope two people are together again, his girl friend is one year with him, because of some reasons, so the departure that he made trouble wilfully very much, former girl friend will be married by another person at once, later on they always have a connection, girl friend very unhappy in life it is said, want, divorce, come back, look for he, he think these what he lead to the fact is very much guilty. And told me all these, I am very light definitely, say this is your private business, I will not intervene, if something determines, tell me it will be better as soon as possible.
Will I ask in a few days how he plans to do? He says I will do according to the way that you talk, decisions will tell you as soon as possible. Having listened to this sentence, I am very cold.
Perhaps you will ask such a person, why you will also stay with him, the reason is numerous, the feeling that we chat on the phone is really very good, perhaps I am the first time too, he goes through more abundantly, very easy to be been moved by him, has thought of separating, but never give up, hesitate not to know unwittingly how he thought in the heart. Do not know either 11 will go over, if does not go over, will want to say good-bye on behalf of two people, if in the past, my unwanted thing will take place, especially when a lot of things were uncertain now. Do you say, how on earth is he thinking, how should I do well on earth?
Letter net friend: A person apt to be lost
Help the girl's reply:
Help girls: Little star
Dear girl, when I begin the love, like not knowing which way to go, confusing like you too, at a loss, even now, I am still a bit clumsy, can't find out what men are thinking in the heart, wonder how to let a section of emotion go on smoothly. But there is a thing I am very clear, that is the experience of only taking out courage, could find the one's own answer.
From your brief description, reason that I think you light and make, there is higher expectation on emotion, understand the requirement for one's own heart very much at the same time, your hesitation lies in lacking experience on one hand, may lie in you fear to be injured on one hand. But my dear, the so-called love, to some degree, it is you that please you for someone, but the more important thing is to injure your right. If the love that you plan all one's life, then you must have such psychological preparation and endurance.
In addition, the woman, all apt to be soft-hearted, especially face one and seem to love oneself deeply, and court your man warmly. Though I can surmise, the girl friend is for bringing your attention and jealousy before he mentions repeatedly with good intention, but I am more willing to believe you may need more break-in on the personality. Making sure to keep in mind, you are not the Saviour, don't expect self-sacrifice to help a soul of wanting to get your man very much. If you think him unsuitable, vacate the position at once, let him pursue the more appropriate person. But at the same time, you don't overly emphasize soul beating in harmony and thoughts communication like Plato either, this needs time, tacit understanding and gets along, and life is far more barren and more vulgar than idol's drama, because the desire is like the shadow following the person.
Should fix lightly, want enthusiasm too, if you really love him, tell him that you mind very much by taking action, the girl friend looked for him before lying in, lay in losing him one day, minded him without telling you as soon as possible he wants to stay with you. The love occupies and envies, pretend it is a kind of foolishness generously.
Finally, long for it very hard in the strange land, especially to two people who have no emotion to accumulate, on 11 long holidays, had better certainly arrange to meet, a lot are afraid, misunderstand and hesitate and will all dissolve in the lover's contact. But can be that he comes to look for you, in this way you will have sense of safety and initiative even more. You should believe one's own control to the thing process, socialise and refuse resolutely candidly.
The love is a section of voyage, hope all of us can go well all the way.
Help girls: U.S.A. asks for
The mistake that in fact first love is aptest to make, it is to treat love as the novel, especially act as the romantic novel before the eighties. The the intersection of era and out of vogue the intersection of Qi and monarch " red tangerine have ", it is not a TV play of that dog's blood) Love of China, beautiful fragrant and man of true love, nearest distance but he raise one's hand want, see the intersection of she and scar of forehead too, she is gentle to avoid the expression in one's eyes of avoiding him. The love of this times is really " The instant noodles " The love of the type, everybody, especially the original intention of man's love is brought clear purpose - -Sex, desire, or the others. Perhaps this is not a man's fault, but a fault of this era. So, it is unnecessary to have some very too drastic responses on the boyfriend's move, or his personality suspected. Change a man People
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