The boyfriend is suspicious Whether it's time to transform or give up _'s love clinic

The boyfriend is suspicious Whether it's time to transform or give up _'s love clinic

The love needs trust, but does not entrust; The love needs too to suspect, but not suspicious definitely.

Always ugly:
Hello! Some questions have been perplexing me all the time, has hoped you help me to analyze.
I and my boyfriend knows on marriage websites in May of this year, so everybody's purpose is very clear. He is nine years older than I, I had not bad impression on him originally.
I live to his family quickly, he is very kind to me, in fact he is a person with fine and smooth emotion. However, he has thought me unnatural, thinks I always conceal some things to him gradually, perhaps it is because he works in the procuratorate, so this logic which he uses, that logic infer me, to give he himself doubt of a mind to look for the answer. Each time so long as he feels incredible, has been asking all the time, I am just like a prisoner finally, deviate from him totally. Sleep to wake up frequently at night very much in my high pressure at that time, very sad.
I love him, I want to marry him, but I want to tell him I and thing between the boyfriends of before, and what he wants to know is special and detailed
Thin, detailed my unable law is opened one's mouth and said to you. In order to prove I am wholehearted to him, that will not have the connection with the person in the past at this stage, he has checked my QQ and my MSN even mobile phone number; I even throw away the cell-phone number in the past, get in touch with me for the person before not allowing.
I at the beginning, thought he loved me for being so angry, has been bearing all the time. Has probably lasted more than one month, to August until he all knew, but he says that wants to say good-bye. His reason but it is that I do not have a bottom line of morals, it is not enough to love him for me. I have not agreed, explain a lot of to him, we have not separated finally. But later,the I one temper than with before much bigger,there are forbearing and conciliatory no longer on I. He says again that said good-bye in a quarrel before 11, I have moved out since the native place came back after 11. The same day not moving, we two take place as nothing, have a chat about a lot. But I move out of his family, feel in my heart that seems not to separate yet finally.
I do not really know he finally loves I, unreconciled cause, I try to phone his friend, tell his friend the place that I confuse, consult his wife's relevant question. He find I call his friend privately, the crazy picture later on, say I give him cuckold, take, come out, scold the intersection of I and thing in the past I fight me. Having received the great injury in my heart, but later on I still send messages and tell him some words of apology, but he does not accept my apology and say that will never forgive me. I do not really know how oneself should do just make him satisfied.
I have loved him up to now, in fact I also want to become reconciled with him. I know mistake of me too many to let he difficult accept or he what's wrong with in emotion? He had five girlfriends in the past, each girlfriend was a sentence of " say good-bye " of his And end up. He, no matter how much others pay for him, how deep the emotion to him is, say good-bye in result. In fact he desires to have a warm family.
Always ugly teacher, anyone says he does not love me, does not understand the love, is it?
Purple and beautiful
It is replied that always ugly:
Purple and beautiful,
Hello. See your story, think you have really paid much more for this love, complain a lot of oneself for mistake of him, but the intersection of you and the mistake of love in him, instead of you.
No doubt, he is an obvious suspicious disease patient, say seriously, it is a kind of psychological disease caused by psychological problem, this has already influenced his emotion life seriously. Person suspecting more attitudes is often bringing the inherent stereotype, through " imagine " Have nothing to do whom life happen incident gather together, afford to create something out of nothing, then the behavioral behavior that others have no intention, misunderstand it in order to nourish hostility to oneself, enough foundation does not suspect others carry on the deception, injury, plot against, play with the scheme and intrigue to oneself, twist a others' one for evil intention with good intention even, so that and people's estrangement, build the wide gap in the human communication by oneself, may fall out and become enemies when being serious.
He will distrust the people around, treats with sight suspected, all these because he does not think there is sense of safety in the world around oneself, the person around does not have sense of safety. These are involved in environment at the time of environment or his teenagers at the time of his birth, there are dense integral connections. Everybody needs sense of safety, this gives no cause for much criticism, but if everybody thinks the surrounding environment can not bring sense of safety to him, this person will strip suspect the attitude guessed to around all thing naturally then. Investigating you from him, later on he finds you and his friend behavior after getting in touch, have well verified this.
In fact, this, with liking having no relations with liking, even if he loves you, guesses you to suspect, this reflects that he does not have sense of safety oneself, so will be like what you said, there have been 5 girlfriends, but will also end up by saying good-bye finally.
Not passing the long-term systematic treatment, his these symptoms will not disappear; There is a lot of first-class husband in the world, don't entertain any illusion to him. This is my most loyal advice to you.


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