The boyfriend would rather look for the daddy type without looking for child type _'s guide of blindlying date
I am a student of one sophomore period, associate with the boyfriend for one year, very happy during this time, but recently, in fact can't say recently either, gradually, get along for long time, think he is that one is glued very much, will not often respect me sometimes, than
If took me to Hangzhou in the seventh evening of the seventh moon in lunarcalendar, went to the railway station (my family members think this is that the morals are problematic after knowing in a situation that I am thoroughly ignorant, but I did not really expect at that time, the muddleheaded one went) ,Think he glues very much, likes glueing it together all day long, being thought is this's the love, think I neglect he, then I very young, a lot of thing know should how about solve also always, he make a noise, say good-bye with me still when being very busy in the past, have ambiguous incident (he say belong to folk prescription for a moment, but he choose, have I tomorrow with others) Everything, I think the heart tired.
Go wrong I want to explain to him, he understands, I think like getting along with the son sometimes, I search one's heart, in the course of the love, it seems that I understand one's own individual character more and more, what I want on earth, what I need is free, and he is more adhesive is the huge crab, I, in order to look after his feeling in order to love him for dying a lot of, in fact I am unhappy, family members mean, I am young, the conditions of various fields really belong to the quite good one, the family is very clean too, mother says that only 20 years old, if this person is good, will certainly then support you to continue going down, but this person's individual character is really unripe, you with him and repeated will really be very tired (emphasize, Papa and Mama are not persons of that kind of patriarchal system absolutely, respect me very much, help me to analyze, take tinted glasses treat the intersection of university student and love even, in the one year in we, Papa and Mama respect I very much) Because so, I feel even more the state of affair is serious, I and his individual character are unworthy of.
I am planning to take an exam of the certificate for tourist guides now, a very large number of things of the school, the pressure is very large, attitude of Papa and Mama let me think, it gets back to to be getting impossible in the past, but he mail message all the time, make a long speech very much still, let me believe the intersection of he and or something else, give chance or something else and then, I feel so annoying, unable to gather to do something, non- gentle, help me!
1. Look for, make boyfriend by one unripe man, then you must sacrifice and become " thing mother " ,Even sometimes your roles are all replacement, live very tiredly like this, love is very bitter. Just think that, if got married, having given birth to the child, big, two little children both need you to look after, is the hard one flurried? This kind of man usually has few judgments by oneself, and is relatively reluctant to be away from home and longing for mother, after getting married if it is not good for the mother-in-law, affirm you are the material bullied. In addition, how will either he generally quarrels to humour you, because temper of that child of his always thinks oneself is the hurt and wronged person, and and you, as the woman, was originally the target who should be coaxed, would coax others now, it is certainly the thing not liked.
2. Glue you, might not love you, it is probably only that kind of feeling, that kind depends on, it is long, his dependence will be strengthened, and you are certain tirelessly. The emotion of talking to such a boyfriend, a heart is hard, when you will think that want to depend on by oneself but the other side can not give you the most real shoulder, but he is even thinking, why you do not give voluntarily some of him depends on, understood some of him more. He might love whom you love exert oneself very much, may really love you very much too, but if he is always in such unripe state, not only your love is unable to escape the misfortune, your future, also it is difficult to see good circumstances in his career.
3. If your thought is riper, perhaps heart will have pride sense of a kind of others' treatment, but you two's young words, would not best make up absolutely, once the intensification of contradictions, the thing will become very poor. You have already made a noise, repeated, if continue it in that case, that just fries the leftovers, will be sour sooner or later. You can not just suit for the moment, have an emotion to him, so is knowing and irritated, ask patient insistance then some time, wait for this period of times, he too would not come, look for you. You must remember not looking for this kind of child's boyfriend again next time, will look for a daddy type, otherwise you will pay much cost for his growth, certainly, if you are so willing to die willingly and gladly, I am who has any objection, after all, persons are all never getting ripe and ripe.
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