The man talks about the second wife

The man talks about the second wife
A man wedding had better from,is lover the best much," the second wife " You had better not wrap up. To man, lover many and kind. A sage has said: See one successful man depend on how many women and money does it have by the he. This just tells people, money and woman are man's successful sign. Though I do not regard this as the absolutely marking of man's success, I think so-called morals and responsibility are all false, I deny the intersection of oneself and lover, I it thinks to be good, I just pairs of thorough in full play human nature. However, I will not raise her, " have a concubine " Too tired. B man can not for a certain reason divorce, the emotion not allowing the man again can be released, that is immoral. The men generally all regard marriage and emotion as totally differently. Believe you go investigate, have how much equivalent to love and marriage in married crowd. The majority's marriage does not start from a certain purpose yet, or because of the house, or because of the position, perhaps there are other reasons, in a word it is multifarious. Very passionate while saying again that got married originally, do not dare either to guarantee this emotion did not change for three years and five years. As a man and his wife have already had no emotions, but can not for a certain reason divorce for the moment, you allow him find another one, can find sustenance people of emotion, allow one normal emotion of man release, that is immoral. C man If you want to don't allow men " Have a concubine " ,Will satisfy the husband in various fields. I to extramarital affair even " Have a concubine " Attitude neither object to, nor recommend. I think this is a party's private business, it is gone to interfere that it is unnecessary for others, if there are conditions, have economic strength, the other side is willing again the bag, he can go, look for. D man The man " has a concubine " Or extramarital affair is all a kind of corrupt manifestation of life, are not allowed by the legal morals too. Can only interfere with the normal life of the family to do it in this way, upset the normal order of the society, only ones that destroyed the marriage. In addition " have a concubine " Or make the extramarital affair, because there are no approval and protection of the law, the not merely due right is unable to get, and the dignity of human personality has been trampled on. No matter " The second wife " All right, lover, those women who depends on the man put oneself to a subordinate status, they place one's own life on the man, in order to pursue the enjoyment of life, willing people swallow humiliation and bear a heavy load, struggle Chinese women equality, liberation of the past one hundred years throw away on the back, this is really a kind of grief, a kind of backslide. E man Conditions marries " The second wife " ,This is typical feudal consciousness remnants. Just there was a little money in the hand, did not know how to spend. This is regular thinking tendency for a long time of accumulation that our Chinese man comes in thousands of years - -The man with rich and powerful feudal society is not only concubines of three wives four's? F man's marriage can be maintained for a long time, but the love may have no golden wedding, silver wedding. I do not say " Have a concubine " It is another form of the love, I just say, the successful man on some undertakings, especially " The tycoon " ,There is a fulfillment on the emotion too to often need. So, if there is space in the engagement of the society, " have a concubine " Will arise at the historic moment, it is strange to have nothing. Officers in successful men have too " Have a concubine " ,but for officer,this for one step chesses dangerous,there are limited in source on money of civil servant, do the money, need to take " official post " Function as the stake. And " tycoon " Stake for marriage of him,out of question in Qian. In fact, " have a concubine " The phenomenon is the woman's grief, not the good news to the man, as to man, natural instincts are all the same, don't be to not " having a concubine " Man send in order to hoping,don't beautify man,including being " have a concubine " at those Man with have " Have a concubine " Man.

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