The man is heavy but not light feeling

The man is heavy, but not light feeling
Today, we blame the too heavy light feeling of men on one hand, on the other hand, social culture is aggravating the male psychological trend again. When the man is still a baby, social culture is contributing through their parents. Genitals of boy receive exceptional compliment and concern always, adult want, cut genital joke of child, train to castrate or spay frightened they, and with castrate or spay frightened to correspond to, to do one's utmost to praise highly to genitals and the intersection of sex and ability. The boy urinates very much and is trained such a concept: It is extremely important to them that sex ability is strong. If a man fails on the sex, can't attract and get women, he will be regarded as the thorough loser. Our culture tells men, two things are essential for them: The success of career, success of the sex. With their growth, the man right society inculcates such an idea with into their head slowly: The man is a powerhouse, and the initiative one, holder of the sex, can be from the lucrative person in the sexual behavior; The woman is the weak, and the passive one of the sex, person occupied. Moulding to woman's the three obediences and the four virtues of social culture, act on the man, heavier man " heavy light feeling " instead With one's heart at peace. And meanwhile, what the girl received is to resist the man " heavy " The education that inclines, the girl should not pursue the sexual love, this just adorns the male one instead heavily, and the woman will form the subconscious psychology of regarding sex as the trade weight inevitably, they know when give man, useful to their top. The sex is a way of one's own identity of male confirmation. It is boy or man that we talk about a man, its standard is often: Whether he is a relation with happening woman. The finishing boy conquering it is regarded as and looks like a real man, the sex is a kind of achievements, so long as let the woman accept it is a real man in sex, there is not relation to and had love, nobody has bothered about. Not because man's light feeling, but orient and adhere to such an idea to the man's social gender role: It is a kind of unripe, not firm behavior that the man pays attention to the emotion. The man the iron in the media, do not let women see most, OK? The minds of women were hit " The man " ,It is not mostly those reserved ones " The tough man " (used at the end of a question)? Man's light feeling, them even only in order to display like " man " ,Dare light feeling either. The sex is our only chance on intimate terms with people. From this view point, heavy, it is exactly the result that the man is injured by culture. Meanwhile we can't ignore, the mankind originally a kind of fondness takes risks, hunts for novelty, trying the species of the new things constantly. Will not the third sexual behavior take place with the same opposite sex in our close relative's gorilla, will sleep two night at the same heads of tree, every meal want, jump, taste different delicious food among different tree. The mankind's ancestor is the same too, they are having courage to leave the woods and live on the land, and been developing until today all the time. Woman constant exploration at sex constrain culture, and man accompany, seek to many, the pursuit that the pluralism to the sex satisfies, but receive the affirmation of culture. The man does not have at the time of needing nature, just as when the woman has need nature too. Any a simple one so-called " how it will be man, how about it will be woman" Division,all it is to man and woman this distortion of natural instinctses real. Thus, where does the man have any " heavy " reason (used at the end of a special alternative, or rhetorical question)? The feeling is a kind of thing leisurely, the men's genitals can't wait, it needs the climax as soon as possible to experience. This is the result that hormone and seminal fluid gather, as a kind of normal physiological phenomenon, it needs leading off and satisfying, and does not need the morals to judge. But, does not the man really need the emotion? Impotence and premature ejaculation are accessories without sexual intercourse of the emotion frequently. Love of wishing eagerly too man,at but this love can't having,but that promoting. Perhaps the slightly accurate statement is, the man is heavy, but not light feeling. They have different manifestation under different stage, different backgrounds of life. And all these, have nothing to do with morality, should not become the reason for defining the man.

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