The man needs to understand the woman's sense of insecurity

The man needs to understand the woman's sense of insecurity
Generally the man with justice in love always thinks that it is a right and proper thing to look after women.
When one's own husband or boyfriend demonstrates to the care of another woman, the wife is easy to make talking in whispers in the heart, even " jealousy " Do great disorderly sheerly. In fact, this is that it had different thinkings to cause that men and women treat this question. The woman is used to regarding oneself as the weak, hope it is all right that the man looks after one of her absorbedly, do not hope to share the man's love and care with other women, is afraid finally the man abandons her and leaves.
However, the man is another thinking. Generally the man with justice in love always thinks that it is a right and proper thing to look after women, it is difficult and unable to stand by and do nothing that the other side has, should demonstrate man's spirit, the reason is mostly the code of the brotherhood among them. Wives can avoid writing the script in one's own head carelessly, if wives understand this, make the chaotic state in which corrupt practices prevail, really put out the man in the door finally, does not know what is the matter!
Meanwhile, men should try to understand too: The woman " Jealousy " Due to sense of insecurity, seem, make trouble wilfully, actually because abandoning anxious in the subconsciousness, may endanger and marriage interests, make her have to regard other women that the man cared about as the skeleton enemy, just like the response on pins and needles.
On the emotion relation, " the woman oppresses women " Compared with friendly feelings among men being much more complicated, reason or woman depends on roles and is far more than men traditionally far, certainly can not stand unusual fluctuation, and make some of nervousness. That's why we need to learn to understand the other reasons of another individual character, not just because two people are both in one's own thinking: The woman wants to seek sense of safety from man desperately, what the man wants is serving as" have sense of duty " , " yes the man " Genders vivid,when so in a single day have emotion stake contradiction, let two people even three sides often, put into worried deeply!
In a word, the emotion stake is that everybody needs the clear one, otherwise assault to others' interests carelessly, make each other three chicken fly to the dog beat between the four person even. And the man tries to understand a great deal of " women Inmature" Behavior or " Unrational " Behind the think, because sense of insecurity, but not find fault simply, know how to conduct oneself well with their changeable and nervousness naturally.
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