The man no important criminal's suspicious frame of mind

The man, no important criminal's suspicious frame of mind
Near the period of time, the discussion about the hymen question of our station is very warm, turn over a older one about " see red " now Article,for everybody's reference. --Editor, no matter how we criticize the feudal chastity view, the ones that undoutedly are, most Chinese bridegrooms still extremely pay attention to the bride's chastity. We wouldn't discuss the ethical question, only want to ask such a bridegroom one sentence: Whether you judge the bride with some methods on earth " Lose chastity " (used after an attribute)? Traditionally, many bridegrooms, according to " see red " No, or the hymen breaks to judge. Ask: Can you tell 7 kinds of different states of the hymen and form the reason? Ask again: Do you really know the gynaecologists are how to check? How much gynaecology do you have the practical experience checked? The most key one is, could you tell me: At first sexual life and an exciting moment so, what magical " works " do you use on earth ,Make just the intersection of oneself and like this getting calm, looking on type, check the bride as confirming the goods? I am unwilling to guess your health or soul has any disease, but I can affirm: You have no love about her. Recently, a lot of bridegrooms have thought, the bride is not too shy, take the initiative very much, will cooperate very much, so suspect her " Lose chastity " [ ]. Even someone thinks, it is problematic that the bride has resisted struggling. But could you tell me: You said " Take the initiative " What kind of standard it is on earth, in other words, how you know to let at once to " take the initiative " (used at the end of a special alternative, or rhetorical question)? About " shy " With " cooperate " Also the same reason. If your own sex experience is not very abundant, how could your judgement be sure? How you know " Chaste and undefiled " Bride it's time every one? There are some bridegrooms, hear brides mention her schoolboys or man colleagues in the past, suspect her " Lose chastity " [ ]. And does not say whether there is an evidence, this kind of suspicion is on showing, this bridegroom does not understand women's general psychology very much. After getting married in the freedom to choose one's spouse, a lot of brides will tell a section of story in the past, and often exaggerate unconsciously. But this number one is here to you " The table is loyal " ,The unspoken words in a play is: " whether although how it will be he, I love you " ; The second is here " Set " Your words, because she hopes to hear your envying to this, for example " that boy dares to come, I have killed him " Wait a moment. She thinks that is swearing an cath of enduring fidelity after marriage, much more reliable than general statement. Believe, otherwise, why will she carry this section to you, OK? Some bridegrooms are not only silly to judge carelessly, but also reach blaming the bride and even abandoning the bride stupidly. Ordinary people say: "Suspect that gives birth to the dark spirit. " The aforesaid judge the method is not only apt to wrong the bride, but also often cause worry to bridegroom for no reason. So, we advise such a bridegroom is one sentence, don't be terribly suspicious, so as not to miss people by mistake, forfeit the happy fate which brings lovers together one's own and beautiful. (the health network of three nine-day periods after the winter solstice)

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