The man is ten pieces of standard _'s marriage psychology of good wife in eyes

The man is ten pieces of standard _'s marriage psychology of good wife in eyes
Each man hopes to have a good wife oneself, then do you know what kind the good wife in man's mind is? The good wife's ten major standards that now say man's psychology.
First, give him some more and respect
The women don't be in the family with the battle of the right takes place to the man. Might as well spare man the intersection of family and sovereignty, let the intersection of husband and one self-respect more, let he behind the intersection of people and forefathers, become one open and aboveboard man outside the the intersection of family and house. Let him feel constantly oneself is a man, feel proud and elated, the scene. Husband who must not make one's own a good man caught in difficult circumtances, make a " bully the bag " Or " worthless person " . The man is the day on woman's head, the man is a backbone of the family, this status is irreplacable for woman. So, good woman should always give husband some more self-respect, let one's own husband stand up, man who does a capitalization.
Second, give him some more trust
Big to say man have one's own career, little to say man take, support the family. For the family, they want to work hard to rush about outside ceaselessly, they want to come into contacts with the varied person of different gender, different age, different identities.
Unless wife, it want fully believe one's own husband,needn't one's own husbands suspicious and which speak more woman by a word; Why did he never go home needn't be worried either? It is busy for him to speak, you believe he really busy, must not suspect he to lie in you. Even if you get through his telephone, hear the advanced hotel where he is putting on a false show of peace and prosperity, you should firmly believe too, this of his is a normal dinner party, but not it is graceful to look for separately. As the wife, don't be terribly suspicious, don't send a punitive expedition to the husband. Firmly believe, one's own husband only joins in the fun on occasion outside, what he loved forever finally is oneself.
Third, it is tolerant to give him some more
Make you tolerant, many because the husband is faulty and having the fault or doing the thing unfair to you. This is relented, in term of I myself, it is really easier said than done. Because want to accomplish tolerantly, accomplishing calm and reason at first.
Women are mostly perceptual, slightly less than satisfactory, lose control of one's own emotion, play with one's own wilful and small temper. The tolerance of combining with the woman is not broad enough, whenever the husband is unfair to oneself, think oneself is the most unfortunate person in the world; It is the victims suffered most; It is the most painful person. For this reason, will ask for justice for oneself simply because hurt and wronged, will even intensify one's efforts to wrangle with. Hardly realize that does it in this way, the husband that can only force goes on the road to the hopeless feeling.
He who understands the trends of the times is a great man. Even if the husband has really done the sorry one's own thing, you must consider calmly, weigh the gain and loss, get hold of degree disputing with the husband. As it always goes, a kindly face masks a stony heart, defeat a force with a tenderness. Might as well excuse me and tolerant at one o'clock for the husband more as the wife. Your tolerance, will move him, will let him feel ashamed and regretful. Only feel ashamed and regretful to atone for one's crime; Also only grateful will reciprocate.
Fourth, give him some more and care about
Care about a man, not merely let him have plenty of food and clothing, the most important thing is to show loving care for his inner world. It takes to fully understand the husband on earth something, what he really likes. Cater to his tastes, does not yield to simply, but let husbands really realize his hope and value.
If a woman, has not understood to one's own husband, then it is really a grieved woman.
If a woman, you say the husband wants to say, makes the thing that the husband wants to do, the husband wants, you let him get. I do not think the husband will go to the outside to look for the satisfied one again.
Interpersonal contacts, it is mainly the heart and communication of heart, it is like this between couple even more. The heart has magic horns, not only depend on the tacit understanding between two people, the more important is woman's insight of the man inner world. It is first bright that accomplish to the prophet, need woman's sharp observation, the careful realizing and soul in right time collide.
Fifth, give him some more understanding
The man has the man's difficulties and hard to get along with too, especially the man is taking on the important mission of producing a male heir to continue the family line, bringing honour to ancestors in the family, certainly will have a responsibility and obligation more than the woman. As the wife, should learn to understand one's own husband, when a woman marries a man, you must make sure to keep in mind, what oneself not merely married is single person of his, whole background behind this man that and marry. You should regard oneself as the important member in this big family voluntarily, fulfil one's own due responsibility conscientiously, needn't care about the personal gain and loss. In fact, both whole family, who it gets to be the same all, lose, whole loss of family.
Understand the husband, give him a stepping-stone, let him cross over the obstacle on the way; Understand husband is to give him hide the intersection of windscreen and rain umbrella for him. Understand the husband, give him some more sympathy; Give him some more pity; Give him some more support.
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