Man's psychology in the extramarital affair

Man's psychology in the extramarital affair
Though result of extramarital affair have nothing in common with each other, men and women final to choose and appear own gender characteristic often. The married man will often promise to say good-bye to wife in all solemnity during deep love, and form the good match with the lover again. However, the man is still rare that the ones that really fulfil the promise in actual life keep one's word, many people delay with all sorts of excuses, does not put promise into practice even after stalling for a long time, it is often from liking new and minding old been general in that they extramarital affair for course until ' mind old and abandon new '. Then, the true man turns back when going into battle at the point of key, it is more selfish that whether mean men, false display of affection, even break faith? Undeniable, really have some men in order to meet the selfish desire for the moment or pursue the stimulus to the sense organ, and regard lover as and substitute temporarily, among them not lack the morals cheat who dallies with women; What is more when the lover jeopardizes one's own official career swan to transport but unable to free, break the prohibition against taking life for removing the obstacle completely. But more married men struggle in the double predicament, wander up and down in the difficult choice, there is the whole story of its society, psychology and morality and justice in fact, do bias unavoidably lost in value judgement to it only with the ethics standard. First of all, though relatively woman of social identification with man impermissible behaviour is tolerant, but ethical value is still the main yardstick of appraising personal character so far, even highly open western developed country in sexual standards, private life still about official career, future of socialite too. Moreover the man always values one's own social role and undertaking value even more, the extramarital affair is often only their colourful little interlude of a section of romance in life, if can be satisfactory to both parties and together beautiful bringing out the best in each other, their natural extravagant hope fish and bear's paw and concurrently having, do not want to swim out of this swirl that makes people intoxicated but very dangerous. However, once conflict with reputation, undertaking, they often weigh the terrible rapids and retreat, part reluctantly with what one treasures bravely, few sacrifice one's own reputation of good husband, good father for lover, even bear the ethical charge of violating the family even the unreasoning passion man who destroys the bright future oneself. Secondly, although the man's sex values are inclined to pluralism, opening and universal fraternity, they are often more rational, more realistic than the woman while making decisive choice. They yearn for the romantic, amazing extramarital affair, but is difficult to forget steady and sure, light wedding inside information, perhaps the family flower is not so gaudy and charming as the wild flower, sweet-smelling, but does not lose warmly, plainly, also often stand careful appreciation, benefit from even more; Although the lover can bring the feeling of freshness in ecstasies to oneself, although such romantic love oozes people's heart, but lack sense of safety very much after all. Moreover the married man is while tasting to prohibit fruits secretly, mostly there is no re-set target becoming the twin lotus flowers on one stalk with the lover, so, the ones that often just exceed supporting for them in extramarital affair, nervous social role add some happy, limp nerve, add some flavoring agent and intersperse for their rule dull dull life, while facing the choice that one of the two must be true, they would rather mostly carry and give up this romantic love of making a desperate move, and get back to the common customs, calm reality. Moreover, because of man enter by mistake penalty area at being may not at marriage crisis,peoples many but automatic control strength getting worse, momentary impulse and ' slip ', it is ' become excited ' only mostly in lover outside so they is for wedding but getting ' aroused in interest more ',put seldom whole-heartedly by emotion into too. Moreover the competent wife exceeds the husband far in actual life, satisfied that the married men do not mostly lack basic physiology and psychology in the family, not lacking happiness, happiness either, after they are in the lover is impetuous or commitment made ' stop the wife ' that there being no alternative, get back to home in the face of reality, often know that one is in the wrong because the wife is competent at the family role, wish to speak but not to do so on a second thought. Add once the plot has come to light, wife point to the other person, forgive the husband attacking targeting often, even go to persuade the husband for tenderness, this lets the husband feel deeply ashamed, remorse and ashamed even more, so that wake up to one's error and ' abandon and yearn for the past newly '. Among them, too although some husbands do not conform with the wife disposition, but the wife has no fault to make the helpful helpmate to put up with hardships at ordinary times, or the wife once made sacrifices for oneself, and is nowadays one's own status change, can't bear to injure the wife of the first marriage in weak tendency, or under the pressure of standardizing the pressure, does not have courage to go out of the enclosure of marriage. Men often come from wife and children's conscience and responsibility, or submit to the pressure of the public opinion of the common customs, it is timid to retreat in the wedding at the last moment on love, unworthy of lovers, this is their rational choice in facing a difficult choice to perplex after all. Transfer it to from the medical network of 37

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