The man's chastity question

The man's chastity question
A word of chastity means the faithful high moral principle, " the woman does not lose virginity, not remarry " that the feudal Confucian or feudal ethical codes recommends It is " chastity " Concrete embodiment of a word. The relevant word of chastity is as follows, chastity, chastity is taken, chastity memorial archway, chaste and undefiled, chaste girl, loyal woman ready to die to preserve one's chastity Such norm of Confucian or feudal ethical codes with strong man right color has influenced the life, destiny of Chinese for thousands of years. It is feudal under constraint of Confucian or feudal ethical codes,woman can only " the the three obediences and the four virtues " ,In front of the husband of many wife's doctrines, abide by " monogamy doctrine " ,Stand fast at chastity for the husband not loyal, will not change even onto death. But the men can stroll around the brothel, roll the paramour with the concubines of three wives four. For thousands of years, Chinese men hold up the big flag of chastity, ignore one's own chaste and undefiled overbearing feeling loves excessively. Nowadays, many men hanker after and " raise the small honey " , " have a concubine " In front of new women, have given a great discount even all gone because of this in the man's dignity. Chinese women after awakening, begin to learn to scrutinize the man around again, they query to the man on human body and spiritual betrayal, and propose " the man's chastity " boldly This new concept. Before this, " chastity " Man give a pack of chains of the woman's, reflect unequal ideas of men and women just. Propose " the man's chastity " This concept, it is in fact to a kind of rebellion of the traditional chastity view, it is a kind of restraint or warning of men, it is one of the conditions of realizing equality of men and women. Perhaps the men can't understand for the moment, more unable to accept, but if can arouse the men's intuitive knowledge, or evoke a layer of ripples in the two sexes world at end of the century, just ample. In era overflowing in shortage of chastity, sexual love, chastity is not merely women's question, it should be binding to the two sexes of men and women. Progressing in, the civilized society, love and chastity should be combined perfectly. Perhaps seem a bit old and decayed to recommend the chastity idea again now, however, if can purify the sky of love, of stability family, the society, why not to carry once again? In the new century, propose " the man's chastity " To traditional the intersection of chastity and one rebellion and one challenge of view not merely, until " whether the intersection of chastity and shortage, sexual love overflow " even more Plant criticism. Men, please look after yourself, for your and my dignity, please restrain one's own behavior in the name of chastity. (www.qianlong.com)

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