This flower of the man's money
The man's money should be spent, not merely say to the woman. No matter how like, spend money of man woman, you to say can as one wishes flower receive, because is the man uncertain to be willing to give you a flower? Certainly this flower. Have hit us mankinds since the matriarchal society enter the paternal line society by oneself, has looked for food to earn money outside, become the man's duty. Then, the man earns money and supports the family, the woman spends money keeping house, it seems to form the division of labour of both sides. The man has earned money more, it is just not merely for keeping house that the woman spends money, but begin to have extra consumption, for example the woman buys some goodlooking clothes, beautiful ornament,etc. for oneself, the woman's look seems more rosy, life becomes more rich and more colorful too. See loved woman spending money, the man is delighted in the heart; The woman is glad in the heart to spend the loved man's money; The man is through giving woman money to spend and cherish women, the woman affirms men by spending the money of a man. The woman is flowers, the man wants to water, should not merely use love, will use the material, because love only love, can not take as meal totally, man and woman understand, this is a material society, love should often reflect by material too, this look like the intersection of Ou and the intersection of Henry and one poor the intersection of men and women and protagonist under novel exactly, one sell the golden watch, one cut go hair, then sell for money, bring present dedicate the other side to to be the same, with love that material reflect being very moving too. Money, can prevent their love from becoming the plans or hopes that are unlikely to be realized, can let their love get along swimmingly with each other further, true. The man earns money for women to spend, natural; The woman spends the man's money, right and proper. But there are two questions: First, what money of man does it cost, second, how it will be money of man spend. There is a kind of woman, her creed is: The man's money, not non- black and white flower. No matter what man it is, and no matter love this man oneself, so long as rich can pursue, she can talk love with any man. This kind of woman, sort of seem the goods on the shelve, can sell to any customer at will. Spend the man's money with such creed, it is really sad. There is a kind of woman, only spend one's own man's money, but she, in order to have money to spend, are always forcing one's own man to earn money desperately, and no matter oneself man works the tiring work to death. In fact, she does not love one's own man in the heart, she just robs men, press men. This kind of woman is not only selfish, but also grim. There is a kind of woman, though only spend one's own man's money, her natural instincts like spending freely, haphazard flower, a spell, and no matter the family circumstances could keep freely always. This kind of woman, though often seem lovely, sad too. Another kind of woman, like spending the man's money too, but the prerequisite is, that man must be one's own loved man, the money which spends him is a kind of happiness. This kind of woman, except spending the money in oneself on one's body, the flower is on one's own man too. Such a person, the man is most fond of, the man is most willing to let her spend money. Another kind of woman, she does not want men to raise women, but should raise oneself. This kind of woman, should say that very aspiring, have a distinction very much too, she sees one's own dignity essentially, so cost man nothing, it is each other that spends money being equal at most. In fact, real good man is often all very willing to spend money for one's own loved woman, because that is that one of his is happy. When in his eyes, the woman is in colored his money, seem the most lovely, it is just like a flower in full bloom, particularly delicate and charming, the man feels and satisfies for this, is proud, feel one's own value, feel the meaning in which oneself earns money. ********Spends some money for the woman liking it, does not mind " the man's money, must spend " This words sound a little helpless. Become man, really enough hard, make some money with great difficulty, meet girlfriend take place piece flirtatious, money type, float unconsciously right away. But the fact is like this, you say the girl friend celebrates birthday, does not give some presents, OK? Go shopping, see the film on weekend, must put the man's " sends " too ,otherwise,don't mention by girl friend, let you not felled too ashamed to show one's face expression in one's eyes at stewardess. So, so long as not too " embarrasingly short of money " ,The woman that likes for oneself spends some money, will not mind very much either. (Mr. Yang of computer company) Helping the man's modern society of self-respect, the woman has one's own career and independent economic source, certainly not need everything to depend on the man, even spends men money, only in order to meet Vanity that oneself is regarded as the woman. And in some public places, if amusing, having a meal, the man will be very keen on face saving, even if the girl implies, will pretend not to hear, seem to have a lot of eyes that are looking at him around to some extent, why does not that woman good at solving the people's will help them? (Miss Zhou, staff member of state-owned enterprise) Will certainly cost sometimes will certainly cost the man's money. This is not an economic question, but a question of the emotion. For example, go window-shopping with boyfriend, settle on a garment, in fact the price is not expensive, I myself can afford too, but I will spread acting like a child to him, mobilize him to buy for me. The happiness in the middle of this has already far exceeded the pleasant surprise that a beautiful garment brings to me, and I and love between the boyfriends, also should strengthen in these things slowly. (Miss Yao, one university student of Shanghai) Whose matter flower people say " man make money, woman it spends that to be right and proper thing " . Even someone says the man spends money for women, reflects that the man love the woman, will not change to today from ancient times, but I am disapproving. Of today modern woman should have again the idea, should any other things is placed on his body, have I too can live very happy, include, spend " the money " of him either naturally on the day of him This link. Two people like to care about each other, show understanding each other, as for on the money, so long as you and I happy who spend, matter, whose it will be flower this and should who 's those is flower too natural to far from being. (graphic designer chirps) Spend money of him ask him should deteriorate man's money flower. There are sentences: "Deteriorates if the man is rich "In fact reasonable. Not when a man has surplus money on one's body, he does not have a great plan, too many money will only let him form the habit of the waste. The flower has spent money, has also spoilt one's own body in buying cigarettes, drinking etc.. There are some men even more, have things to invite opposite sex's friend to dinner having no thing after having money, bring much trouble. Not so good as, let money of him spend on oneself also like this, help him manage money matters. Promote two people's emotion, also avoid future trouble, why not do it? (the civilian of day -invested company spends the son) " the man's money, must spend " not to want to look on me as the major part of wrong and does not agree with again This kind of statement. Recommend the equality of men and women everywhere now, certainly spend money
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