Male the intersection of psychology and gentle _'s interpersonal psychology behind hard people in front of the man everybody

Male the intersection of psychology and gentle _'s interpersonal psychology behind hard people in front of the man everybody
Man's self-esteem is very strong, I and his temporary strange land work. Phoning him each time, he yields to me very much when there are no people, but only there is his friend nearby, he is the tone not minded. And, we and his very good brothers and girl friend went out to play. Because we, for a long time without meet, I act like a child to him right away. Later on when we get along alone, he says I should not act like a child too too to him.



Strange, his brother's girl friend acts like a child, his brothers' happiness of a face. I act like a child, why does he think that there is not face? And we have not met for a long time, then I am the natural response. And the girl friend acts like a child, he should have face even more. He also says me, I feel wronged.
Another times of quarrel, I mistaken really, I make a phone call to him voluntarily, have spoken ldquo midway; Want, phone you rdquo originally; ,He was angrier finally. And fine he say I phone him to be very much glad each time, must extremely demonstrate propping up neither very warm nor coldly later on. Does not this save face at all costs and have a hell of a life?
The flavor peppermint of vanilla:
Ha, this plants many double-dealers. A reader tells me, her husband's double-dealers let her can't help smiling.
Readers are old the public are in the mountain area. They young couple live in the city. On ordinary days, that is twenty four filial piety men, do washing, cook, pour water hellip; hellip;
Still beat the foot for her every night! However, so long as husband's father and mother come, the husband change 180 degrees, house work does not touch with one's hand without exception, it is to breathe out and breathe out drinks to greet her, the more laughable one is, the whole family watched TV one evening, the husband toughened one's scalp to shout to her unexpectedly: ldquo; Come on, beat the foot for me! rdquo; Having finished calling and still cast a look at her stealthily, is it angry to observe her, it is unwilling to cooperate to fear her. That pair of moral characters of looking at the husband, readers have almost smiled at the field.
Later on this reader finds slowly, the man who first introduced the practice of burying wooden image with dead who trains double-dealer's husband is exactly her mother-in-law. Mother-in-law serve father-in-law make all-out efforts, at ordinary times at even shoelace helps him to tie. She still admonishes the son stealthily frequently: ldquo; House work woman do, you whether grandfather does not touch with one's hand hellip; hellip; Should have manners to the wife, should be in charge of her hellip; hellip; rdquo; Then, the husband is too shy to love the wife dearly in front of parents.
The double-dealer man trained out in the family. You blame the boyfriend not to love you dearly in front of others, can go to observe his family, see whether there are clueses.
However, even if how he have such a personality? Do not affect the whole. Unless he is too shy just ache by you publicly, but privately,he or coax you not to be doted on youed to when yielding to by youing? You gained to real interests. And you regard as, couple, together, occasions of striking a pose in publicly are large after all. This means, he has many while yielding to you, he needs you to be few when yielding to. What woolen cloth suffering a loss do you have?
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