All sorts of all-round records of man's affair

All sorts of all-round records of man's affair
The affair suitable person that wishes eagerly most: Old lover Lao Lang is very in pain. Say accurately that there is some thin sorrow. This kind is painful or sad and has been annotated in " deskmate " " longed for the travel fatigue ". The past everything was certainly beautiful. Including that woman deskmate who borrows half a rubber from you, include you like, need in deep distress she love you the intersection of tears and one the intersection of snivel and of those old lovers of yours each other in a complete mess too for a time even more. Natural everything has gone over. You become blue collar, become white collar again from dark neck since the so many year, smile of you to perfunctory and then from pure to being ripe. Already everything time brings great changes to the world, the things are still there but men are no more the same ones. The old lover has not already known whereabouts naturally too. All that you were at last existing, are used to the wife get busy about everything for you instead of the old lovering. But destiny is variable, the samsara is in order. Old lover " sometimes after all must have, impose don't when not having on lives in the life " finally one day The ground has appeared. A telephone number, a party, one is met by chance, and even a intentional arrangement. The means or way to appear is actually unimportant. Then, your heart havoc. Certainly wish eagerly indistinctly after being in havoc: If tomorrow will come, come again in the past? Some that may exist in actual life is less than satisfactory, it is no doubt a reason why this kind of thought can be produced, in fact deeper psychology still lies in, the more precious the thing the less got feels. Sometimes people are so lowpriced. The most romantic affair mode: Meeting the white collar of love of one night by chance has many chances of going on business naturally. Then meet by chance. Then " The Bridges of Madison County ". The reason why this kind of affair mode is romantic, because the utility purpose that it does not exist. Intensively " Love " And not bear any responsibility or morality and justice once. Pretty good. But there is a drawback. Because of " love of one night " In fact too " Clear in one night " ," the desolate my darling is a passerby from now on " . This is undoubtedly a bit cruel. It needs two people to carry clearly. In case one parties can not carry clearly, just call in trouble. A further point is " romantic like this " Affair can meet can't ask. This have a lot of people connect disgusting to let alone others piece since with in the world. In let pieces of pleasing to the eye and the intersection of world outlook and the intersection of emotion and view (dare, speak the intersection of love and view) during the journey The same people rare. Want prove one o'clock finally, " at road " Affair dangerous. It lie in it is be cold to frown to wife will bare fangs and brandish claws to if you can't wash, come in, and lie in original body of mycoplasma, clothing even HIV are washed in compulsorily. It is the crime that can be forgiven that the extramarital relation is true, venereal disease can't be forgiven. This plant dangerous the reason why to exist all the time is because " Voyage lover " No doubt romantic, but the floating population after all, and is comparatively opened by sexual standards, active dangerous crowd of issue (sorry, medical terminology of using) of ining etc. . So say in this meaning, carry cost romantically. For example the rose, the flower is beautiful; Sting, pitch people. The most appropriate affair place: The bar bar is actually filter or mask appearance. It can make the rough man graceful seemingly. And the affair is just indistinct behind the gracefulness. About the affair at the bar is such frequently: Rock half wine, pace from a bar counter to another bar counter smiling. Be careful, do not sit down at will, unless your prey has already been grasped. Even you have chosen lady in the range how to want the patience to be sincere while talking with entering people. The voice wants to be a little magnetic, and often " eh moan " Several times, in order to reveal it is to do a job with skill and ease that your assurance to a certain topic is solemn. It has god that the natural eyes should be looked forward to, until real prey and you lock each other. But the real fight does not obviously go on in the bar, otherwise will eradicate porn things and illegal publication in the office 1,000 are not promised. What you need to make is only completion prelude part. Clear away the psychological obstacle, obtain the telephone number, the time to agree to meet again. Since this begins to receive people's track for everything. Whether undoubtedly you will step into a thrill or game more scared than hurt. Most popular affair reason: Like not to mind old newly What counts is that " No " Word. The man can say " No " ,Say "no " Man getting all more right fish, bear's paw hold concurrently to have. Have solved an eternal difficult problem. Certainly the most important thing is to handle well " New " With " old " Relation. There is assigned question of a proportion. The emphasis point is in the front. " like " . It only takes the latter " Do not mind " . Maintain the statusquo. Some clueses must be removed. Or change a statement, some doubts from wife respect should be tried every possible means to dispel. For example suddenly sweet-smelling to stand up with you of perfume never in usual, although people in middle age afford to act out of character already. For example you make an excuse, want, work very late, treat with courtesy more and more suddenly, often is very late to go home, but can not tell the believable reason. Alternatively, cared about the other side's daily schedule excessively suddenly, what, when was on business, when to work overtime, when to go home to when the wife do, ask about clearly. For example, the sexual life of you and wife is suddenly dead stop again. Or conversely, and you look like compensate unexpected quickening make love frequency cold ice-cold only form have no intension. All these things will attract the sight that the wife wonder undoubtedly. You have to begin to be shilly-shally, unable to deal with. So " like not to mind old newly " Say in this meaning it is a highly difficult tight-wire walking that moves. Equilibrate the indifferent person to cut and try easily. The affair psychology of deceiving oneself as well as others most: Do not eat the cat prohibiting fruits and eating smelling of fish in the world. But does not eat to the person who prohibits the fruit. It is certainly some high-level persons. Anything white collar. But must not be thought this to be noble act. When its fun of the spiritual extramarital relation is better than extramarital relation of the human body far, this has already been betray a kind of profound level of the family life. So it has a fashionable game of city of lethality most to eat the affair of prohibiting the fruit. Not merely " Take advantage of people " ,And " take advantage of by oneself " at dawn . The text of the story can be most varied. For example a pair of lovers that once liked half dead and half alive say good-bye due to a certain reasons and make up the family respectively. But these families are families having a false reputation, this pair of lovers " resume their conjugal felicity " not speaking and revealing one's feelings Let " strange bedfellows "ly Lifelike two times again; Still such as a pair of boyfriends in an office " Face to face, intimate " ,Limited to environmental they Have not explained. At last, the chance came. In a heavenly trip in strange land, they discuss animatedly for one night with historical significance; And then for example one is young and beautiful and often getting to know a poet of distinguished and admirable sad Tang at once Pen Association becoming a writer and young married woman of the poet dream at last. His passion, his are bold and unconstrained to evoke the inspiration and excited of she on the creation; They discuss but the man discusses Pushkin discusses Eliot discusses Shu Ting discusses Kitajima and mentions the emotion finally. Then the affair story of a piece of commonplace has begun the new page. So say in this meaning that not only eats the cat smelling of fish in the world, eat to the person smelling of fish too. Whether only this offensive smell is more special or more graceful. The age of affair aptest to overstep the limit: Train one putting on airs everywhere middle age. It does not go according to the orbit. It is just inevitable to overstep the limit. But the reason to overstep the limit can't be regarded as the middle aged number of people completely. When it is sane with vicissitudes and beer belly that the increasingly many pure young girl is crazy about the middle-aged person, it is quite difficult too for the middle-aged person to want to do the willow to make the favor. Some hardwares are owned by middle-aged person only (to compare with young man) : Certain reputation and social status; Can size up the situation calmly reasonably; There is understanding in every possible way on women's psychology. All these things are exactly what middle aged man's invincible, all-conquering key is all about. Some data have supported the above-mentioned statement. One the Municipal Women's Federation is in 37 that are accepted " The other person's participating case " Find 37 these most people unmarried woman, have 20 people at the age of 25- 29 really, belong to the unmarried young woman above the average age for marriage. But the husband's majority is the own wedding man of the middle age 30- 40 years old. But however, these data do not indicate the middle aged man is the victim. In the game of emotion, the conspiracy and so ignorant as to often make up together. At some time; Power has played the function detered too, is similar to the guided missiles of U.S.A. and NATO. Then, the emotion game not originally very pure is degraded under this kind of state into a certain hard to understand exchange. The thing has been complicated. Certainly, it is few and complicated for no matter this kind of thing to act as, or have easily solved possibility after all. And the last person who holds edge must be that a face with innocent middle-aged person. It is not definite that it is the easiest. Can totally be held in advance too while overstepping the limit. The affair target of the least good treatment: Have not played with the scheme and intrigue at all under the woman, has not taken advantage of one's power to bully people. Fall in love with with the woman naturally. So-called raw feeling with the passing of time. Perhaps in all affair targets, is the most difficult treatment under the woman. It is that the possibility that is found is the greatest at first. And does not say " Make eyes at " ,etc. apt and exposed outside expression,meet secretly only in choice of place last you brains completely wounded. This city is so small, this office is pitifully small too. And the office that often happens is not allowed you to feel all the time by the tragedy of catching etc. " The masses' eyes are bright " . Then escape from the home one by one. But days when loves in the alien land are very few. Can not be on business everyday after all, can not be on business each time after all showing her, so easy to expose. So the completely wounded brain of place issue. Secondly it is more difficult to deal with that it is a relation in the future. Even if is that very subordinate pure love of yours, the pure love is reached not to destroy your existing family relationship, not putting forward the extra demand at work to you, but how you face a pure woman like this (or still a girl) ? ! How do you do just watertight and doing a job with skill and ease on daily life, work relationship? And all these seem under that woman it is your your sham of maturity on earth, really only a talent of hers has known that. So your trend of the relation with her in the future will be more difficult. The third is that once a thing is fallen through and stood exposed and attacked is double. Either you leave, either she leaves, or two leave. So is undoubtedly a time bomb under saying the warm woman that hides of the relation with you in this meaning. Once igniting there must be lethality. " a rabbit doesn't eat the grass near its own hole " . The artificial that came out of one's elders is affective at any time. There is affair film of the same feeling most:> A university professor more than fifty, rush about between a wife and a lover all day. He kindhearted personality make him to be unwilling to let down the woman, he romantic natural instincts make him unable, take care of each other a woman again. He is only kept constantly on the run all day, the hardships like famous marathon player, but there is not a hope of the victory forever. This is " marathon in autumn ". The reason why to cause the same feeling is because two captivating wordings " Kindhearted " With " romantic " . These it is two that sample the intersection of style and the intersection of relation and warm wording that hide, it let, have, lead at the man finding the noble reason day in affair finally. Almost suitable person of " The Bridges of Madison County ", but is deficient that hardships with sense of reality so only the reputation have no the same feeling. In short, " affair " Two words are very hard. An arduous one is certainly health at first. Foot, just much less, other position, especially sensitive position of health shoulder heavy responsiblities further. Secondly an arduous one is the soul. In a situation that a kind of value judgement standard is not so distinct, being tormented is undoubtedly a soul misfortune different to escape. You say, there emerged a the intersection of right and wrong and the reason why forever, have a clear conscience, certainly had nothing to do with you. There is not a free lunch all over the world. " affair " Also should check after all. The affair celebrity who can influence history most: Einstein people too in celebrity. But the celebrity's affair is extraordinary or quite outstanding. It not only can influence parties, can also influence history. Such as Einstein. He and rice of wife of the individual character eager to do well in everything list babies without getting along well, have to divorce. But before the divorce, Einstein has already produced the love with cousin Ally's sha, namely the extramarital affair (certainly regard as the affair) takes place ,Einstein got married with Ally's sha soon after divorcing. Then the happy physicist has made the shocked achievement throughout the world. The affair has saved a physicist at the point of key and then has brought about an human advance. But however, the concrete incident should be made a concrete analysis of. Thing showing off everywhere that the celebrity's affair is not one worth after all. As the case. The affair has positive function only when destroying the marriage without love. And European and China of the beginning of this century where such an affair can only take place in Middle Ages. Review the celebrity instantly, their bizarre and motley affair story can only be regarded as people discussing the money or newspapers and magazines after dinner in order to gain readers Selling point. Mention, influence history, important reason reputation, ability of celebrity these far from enough no doubt on one hand, on the other hand lie in their affair is packed with too many selfish desires, the demeanour of a well-bred girl less than the older generation celebrity. A romantic era has already passed by, you can not offer the example making people utterly convinced to affair person again today. (Gentle: Fan Jun " newspaper of city of Shenzhen ")

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