Man's psychological idea: Love and marriage are _'s marriage psychology of two different matters

Man's psychological idea: Love and marriage are _'s marriage psychology of two different matters
The man's marriage psychology is the effete and sentimental writings in general in view of the main activity of the love, talks love, the main activity of the marriage is fuel,rice,oil and salt and basic daily necessities, one pot of bowls wooden dipper basin, live at home, so, ideal lover, the more beautiful the better, it is the better to be the more romantic. But ideal lover, really the better, the appearance is not too bad, too beautiful, it is apt to bring trouble on oneself, make the family not have peaceful day.
The man often hopes the marriage is fair maiden and accomplished lady, and often have great prejudice to the beauty, regarded as " Beauty is misfortune " And so on.
But this kind " Reason " , " wise " Choice,restrict when the man wakes up only often,or awaken from the dream hour. The problem is, the man often will propose to the target of the heart appearance when being dizzied the head by romantic love. What kind of woman, is it dim to make men make? It is certainly a beauty! Especially the coquettish type, fox spirit type's best beauty, neglect you at one glance, can cancel and go your soul. Even soul, what reason, wise does it discuss, moreover, the man is lustful main facts innately.
So, the beauty, accomplished lady and fair maiden, man's first-selection without the least hesitation must be the beauty. He will with the utmost concentration, roue keep watch on it beauty,even smooth in I of canthus tip of the brow, will not give to accomplished lady and fair maiden either. Beauty's greatest ability, it is to let the man fall in love at first sight, fall in love at first sight, see that loses souls. There are the American wife's men in the family, often endure " beauty is misfortune " to the fullest extent Keenly felt pain after,can recall past pains, eyes stay at accomplished lady, or on the fair maiden's body.
Between accomplished lady and fair maiden, whom the man must choose is fair maiden. " the lovely lady, fit bride for our lord " (indicating that sth. is obvious)! Although the fair maiden is not so characteristically brilliant as the accomplished lady, there are cultivating certainly, the education and ability to control oneself after all. That burst of gentle, gentle and refined, graceful pure and right air, it is angry to be defeated by and disturbed and the goblin is angry, but angrier than not to there are not book fragrance of the characteristic, book roll at all, more competitive, affinity and natural attractiveness.
As the beauty has already died, beauty is late in her life, ugly woman and old woman which the beauty has one's face covered with as wrinkles, appearance while reaching the absolute equality in front of God, Hou when the this piece, accomplished lady can become lines of pleasing scenery most. Because the accomplished lady has full ventral Book of Sangs and the Book of History to maintain for her, so the drifting fragrance of poesy forever, never old.
If the beauty is " The misfortune " ,The fair maiden is here " In one party of water " "woman whose face is as clear and bright as autumn water " ,The accomplished lady is a jar of good wine of many years' standing, fill and always fill fragrantly. Thus, the beauty, fair maiden and accomplished lady, is often the man in the first-selection at youth, middle age and old stage respectively, or the best person.
Why does the marriage let men have choice like this? It not merely means having a warm health to lie at man's side to get married, mean even more that there is a life bodyguard at one's side. Every one is dark at night in the life, the man will often wake from the fear, the fear of failing, to fragile fear, to life main fear of role under drama no longer.
A fellow getting married knows accurately what he wants to do next: Catch to the family, buy some food on the road by the way and after getting home, say hello with family, change into the intersection of home furnishing and clothes, a cup of tea, sit down, turn on the TV set, watch the sports program that oneself likes steep.
Summarize a word, just because the marriage let men have sense of safety, let men have stable heart that came down, so the man hopes to find a woman letting them feel steady and sure forever when being chosen the marriage target.
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