Looked forward to time of _'s love which the man are

Looked forward to time of _'s love which the man are

" really love a man " Mean: Avoid criticizing him for loving your motive; While avoiding putting him into the gender to classify - -For example the nitpicking man is always so, the man is always like that; Go to understand his ability, avoid requiring he can pay
Pay; And avoid always shirking all responsibility to him unfairly when the relation go wrong.
The man, to loving women for expecting to some extent
What expectation does the man have on woman that they love? Stature, appearance, ability, family's social standing, individual character, perhaps perhaps, one sincere intimate relation begin with, experience as the husband the wife " really loves him " .
After discussing their ideal intimate relation animatedly with several hundred men, collected the following " man's declarations " :
"When I propose she makes me feel the pressure, she can accept joyfully, and does not criticize me captiously or not love her. I hope she can further each other's relation in accordance with the method that we discuss. "
"She can admit having selfish side too oneself, I am not the only person who regards oneself as the centre, she herself is limited too in devotion of the love, even she is only the requirement for utilizing me to meet her sometimes; In addition, I do not hope to be some pairs of men's mechanical impression and negative feeling are being hidden in her subconscious either. "
"She knows that it should be two-way to communicate. Can discuss the reason calmly after we dispute, I hope she knows my fierce response has parts that is influenced by her. I do not hope to be regarded as " The party if have any further problems " Or does not " know OK the lover "
"Whom she loved is I who am real, but not I who am perfect in her illusion. I do not hope oneself is only the romantic illusion meeting her, because I know reality is not like this, the result may make her more disappointed. "



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