What controlling excited _'s male health care before marriage the man is

What controlling excited _'s male health care before marriage the man is
Whom man stay with loved woman snuggle up to interdependent, secretly, when Italy continuous feeling, producing excited idea very easily, it is a whiff of inherent strength of tending to opposite sex's goal that the sex is excited, how is controlling excited before marriage in the sex psychological phenomena that it is normal, the man?
After the man enters adolescence, secrete internal sex hormone constantly, sudden change took place in various physiological functions, make genitals and function reach maturity rapidly. Love period deeply, psychological activities such as the perceptual, mood, memory and imagining related to sex,etc. are unusually active. The girl's shining eyes and white teeth, slim figure and fragrant breath, in a word, girl give vision of guy and sense of taste, sense of hearing, sense of touch, all that sense of smell bring irritate, cause he nature excited important factor.
If liken emotion to the oar, it is a rudder to be so rational. Only tacit cooperation of the two, the boat of the love could reach the happy other shore. Perhaps what the pre-marital guy met is exactly this kind " Control " Test of the ability. The intersection of sex and excited great waves that raise, will make guy to be vast and hazy helpless and without resources, " ship " Subvert, stranded. Only the strong-willed guy, could put down the great waves, the oceangoing voyage of setting sail.
The premarital sex is that love stage is contrary to society's ethical impermissible behaviour, it has very great harmfulness to the development of the love.
First, the premarital sex is an illegal behavior.
In our country, the sexual life is the legal couple's right, it is the important content of couple's life, it must have protection of the law, by no means can happen at will between any men and women.
Second, the premarital sex is apt to cause the setback.
The future of the love is two, either Jack shall have Jill, all shall be well, or have no chance to part company with each other. If the sexual relations happen, once one party abandons the old for the new, seek the new sweetheart separately, or say good-bye because of some other reasons, will cause serious setback and blow to another party. To the young woman, will bring greater agony.
Third, the premarital sex will cause the psychology of both sides to lack proper care.
The party often carried on sexual behavior in nervous, urge condition, add under the most situation, guy lack essential sex knowledge, the very difficult to afford to discuss sexual life. Not only can cause the failing of sexual life fun in newly-married night, will let some girls produce the abnormal view on the sexual life, as thinking the sexual life is that the pain is not clean, unhappy, and is produced and boring to the sexual life, abhors and frightened mood, the causing is cold, influence the normal sexual life after marriage. If is not careful and pregnant, safe to make both sides fall into the embarrassed condition and miscarry in early days, but will bring the agony of the body and mind to girl and lose after all, some dangerous complications can also happen because of this.
Fourth, the premarital sex may cause the misfortune of life after marriage.
Some men hold " Anyway it is the couple to come " Idea,have marriage registration on relation with happening girl. But the girl's defect is exposed gradually afterwards, the guy feels discontented, but " the raw rice became the well done meal " ,It is too late to regret, have to get married reluctantly. Likewise, some girls are rash and bow under man's honeyed words, though feel the other side is unsatisfactory with the passing of time, in order to take the reputation into account, have to stoop to compromise too, combine reluctantly. This kind lacks basic marriage, is far from being happily.
Should in deep love man excited how to adjust the right one's own sex?
First, should abolish to " sex " Mystique.
Because of historical reasons, people discuss " sex " in our country The color changes, " the sex person, excessive too " Thought deep-rooted at some people head China. So, the guys should read some and introduce the books of sex knowledge, strengthen restraining excited ability, reduce correctly " The sex " Mystique.
Second, the guy should strengthen the will and do exercises.
When the sexual desire is produced, should adopt the corresponding method to remind, imply oneself, excited for relieving. Besides talking love with the girl, can also participate in some beneficial social activity and recreational activities with her, in order to disperse the attention to the sex, enable the distillation of love. You know, love on it is real, whose name is should " and noble one that be respected each other,it can't act on a momentary impulse just with on a sudden impulse " . In deep love, understand oneself, cherish the other side, impart lust with new glamour, weigh the depth of the lust with reason. One is not that a range of the love of the sexual desire is the more extensive, then the nobler his sexual love is.
Third, while getting along with the girl, should reduce continuous lover's prattle and too very intimate movement appropriately.
From the viewpoint of physiologic angle, stroke, kiss, embrace, it is aptest to evoke the man's sexual desire. So, the guys want to be good at oneself's restraining. Just like what soil Bia of sha said: "The love is the same as charcoal, can try to let it cool. Let it burn while being arbitrary, it will scorch a heart then. " Because the sexual behavior involves the responsibility to oneself, mean responsible for the others' oning, there is impact on society even more. Love deeply, it likes intensity that wills controls to be to it weighs the love to be the ripe yardstick.
Fourth, use the behavior of consoling oneself appropriately.
The man breaks out in a fervour in the sexual love, reach " fanatically " When but stage can't be controlled, so long as regard masturbation as a kind of hobby, and does not endanger others and the society, it can yet be regarded as regulating and dredging an excited emergent method.
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